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La experiencia Beta

La mujer que no pudo lograr que un Alfa se comprometa con ella puede llegar a tratar bien a su BB al principio, no porque quiera engañarlo sino por la novedad de «al fin tengo un novio de verdad» que le hace sentir como si estuviera enamorada.

Incluso una súper viuda alfa puede llegar a sentirse atraída a su BB (Beta Bucks / Plata Beta) al comienzo.

Y no solo los Blue Pills caen en el engaño. Los Redpilleros también pueden llegar a caer, especialmente si les falta experiencia.

Cuerpo

Me decidí a escribir sobre el tema porque vi bastantes tipos caer en esta trampa, ademas de que yo mismo estoy constantemente batallando contra esta ilusión. Es una trampa ingeniosa a la que es muy fácil caer. No pienses que la mujer va a sentir siempre frustración por haber terminado en una relación con un Beta.

Todos conocemos los síntomas de las relaciones BB. Sexo a cuentagotas (con suerte), quejas constantes, expectativas irreales de lo que el BB debería estar haciendo por ella, infidelidades, etc. En general la mujer se distancia del beta, no se esfuerza en nada de la relación, pero espera que el si se esfuerce un montón.

¿Como carajos cae alguien en esa trampa?

Podríamos asumir que ella intenta tentarlo porque quiere sentar cabeza y decide conscientemente engatusarlo, lo hace tratándolo bien, escondiendo sus «banderas rojas» y dándole al beta el mejor sexo de su vida.

Pero la situación no siempre es esta y el otro escenario posible (y también el mas probable) es aun mas deshonesto, porque encima es mas difícil de detectar.

Tomemos una mujer que estuvo intentando conseguir una relación de verdad con varios alfas, pero sin éxito. Veamos cómo se siente ella cuando un Billy Beta promedio pero justito lo suficientemente atractivo como para ponerse en pareja se pone en pareja con ella:

  • La mujer se siente validada de varias formas. Antes de su BB, solo obtenía validación por su cuerpo y sus habilidades en la cama. (Por eso los alfas la seguían viendo, esporádicamente). Hoy se siente validada por su personalidad y lo que sea que ella piensa que tiene para ofrecer en la relación, todo esto por el simple hecho de que el se puso en pareja con ella, y no se cansa de decirle lo especial que ella es. Billy Beta siendo quien es.
  • Lo mas atractivo de la relación, para ella, va a ser la validación/prueba social que conlleva tener un novio. Ya no va a ir sola a las fiestas y eventos. La gente la va a ver con un hombre leal que la adora. Hasta es posible que algunas mujeres la envidien (más validación). Pero lo mas importante de todo: El solo hecho de poder decir «Tengo novio» significa para ella mucho mas de lo que vos podes imaginar.
  • La mayoría de las trolas, incluso aquellas que mas defienden el sexo casual, odian cuando la gente las toma como trolas. No quieren que las vean como «fáciles». No quieren que los demás las vean como la mujer que no logra que un hombre se ponga en pareja con ella. Y tener un novio hace que inmediatamente parezca menos trola de lo que es.
  • Este hecho  y el tema de la prueba social le dan una mano con sus amigas. Una mujer es menos amenazante cuando tiene un novio. Sus amigas en pareja no tienen que andar preocupándose en que se le tire a sus novios. Y sus amigas solteras saben que no van a tener que competir con ella cuando salgan y se les tiren chicos lindos. Y encima de todo va a poder empezar a hablar de «cosas de pareja» que para las amigas es mas placentero que escuchar sus historias de troles. Combina todo junto y la mujer siente que su vida social esta mejorando, porque parece gustarle de pronto a las demás mujeres. Las mujeres odian a las trolas, tan simple como eso.
  • Ella va a amar las cosas románticas/de apoyo incondicional que hace su BB al inicio de la relación. Pero las va a amar porque para ella son algo nuevo. Probablemente estés pensando «ni ahí, no es nuevo para ella, siempre tuvo betas babosos que la amaban y que querían ganar su atención con regalos y cumplidos, escuchándola por horas, volviéndose su tampón emocional y apoyándola siempre que ella lo necesito». Y tenés razón. Pero la diferencia es que esta vez ella esta obteniendo todo eso de un hombre por el cual por lo menos siente un poco de atracción. Y la diferencia es el día y la noche. Lo suficiente como para que la haga sentirse bien y para que le guste lo suficiente para mostrarle a este tipo que le gusta. Básicamente todas las cosas betas que te decimos acá que no hagas van a jugar a favor del beta en esta situación. O sea, al comienzo.
  • Puede incluso suceder que hasta el sexo con el BB sea increíble, al comienzo. Solo porque este tipo de sexo íntimo y amoroso es nuevo para ella. Ya tiene bastante calle y encontrar alguien que le de una nueva experiencia en la cama puede llegar a encenderla un montón.

Ya vi todo lo de arriba un montón de veces y la lista ni siquiera está completa.

Combinemos ahora todo lo que ella obtiene de una:

Validación en todos los frentes, mejora de su vida social, un baboso arrastrado que hasta le gusta y una nueva experiencia sexual.

Esto es mas que suficiente para hacerle sentir atracción por su BB, incluso hacerle sentir que se enamoró de el.

No siente como si hubiera tenido que agarrar lo que había.

La mujer termina enamorada totalmente de esta nueva experiencia y nuevas sensaciones. No se enamora de el pero para ella va a parecer lo mismo. Y consecuentemente lo va a tratar como un alfa, al comienzo.

Va a comportarse de una forma que no podría simular intencionalmente si estuviera intentando atraer al BB conscientemente. Porque su afecto es genuino, al comienzo.

Pero, como sabemos los Redpilleros: una vez que la novedad del «al fin tengo novio!» se acaba, todas las enseñanzas de la dinámica AFBB vuelven a aplicarse. Ella empieza a molestarse con el, y tratarlo como el Billy Beta que es.

Podemos ver como esto puede tomar totalmente desprevenido al típico beta. Nada que nos sorprenda acá, y realmente tampoco es nuestro problema.

Lo interesante, eso si, es que esta situación también puede afectar a los redpilleros que están aprendiendo, aquellos que se conocen la teoría pero no tienen la practica. Estas son algunas de las cosas que pueden pasar si sos uno de esos:

  • Podes llegar a pensar que encontraste un unicornio. Esta chica no cumple con ninguna regla. Te comportas como un súper beta en su presencia y no parece haber ningún impacto negativo. Hasta ama tus trazas de personalidad beta.
    U-N-I-C-O-R-N-I-O.
  • Subestimas tus cualidades alfa y tu propia atracción. Conoces la escala de permitidos beta. Cuanto mas atractivo y alfa sos, mas te podes salir con la tuya haciendo cosas de beta. Sin embargo, en este escenario podes hacer cosas betas no por tus cualidades alfa y tu nivel de atracción, sino por la nueva experiencia que le estas dando. Y esta es la trampa: «¡Guau!, es tal cual como lo soñé. Soy un winner porque tengo todas las cualidades de un beta, pero ademas empece a hacer pesas y ya tengo un físico por encima del promedio. Y soy mas inteligente que los idiotas del gimnasio. Y porque me preocupo por ella. Piensa que puedo llegar a ser un mujeriego pero me respeta por elegir no ser uno.» Y pensás «Soy único porque no encontrás una combinación así en otros tipos, y eso es lo que me destaca de los demás. Soy el superman de las relaciones. Seguro que en la red pill no hablan de esta combinación porque a la mayoría solo les interesa las relaciones esporádicas y el sexo casual.» Esta forma de pensar es muy peligrosa y va a dañar tu motivación en trabajar en conseguir las cualidades alfa que la red pill respalda. Esta misma situación le paso a mis amigos, me pasó a mi, y juzgando algunas de las preguntas y artículos que se ven en los foros y en el sub, le pasa a un montón de redpilleros que acaban de completar sus primeros pasos de auto-superación.
  • Salir con esta chica te va a hacer sentir tal cual como si todo lo que hubieras estado esperando en tus años de Blue Pill se cumpliera. La frustración, la fase del enojo, todo lo que odias, todo eso que no querés que sea verdad, todo lo que soñabas con que la red pill estuviera equivocada… materializado en ella, dándote todo lo que querías, fomentando ese deseo de que la red pill exagera.
  • Esto es lo mas peligroso y dañino para vos redpillero cuyo objetivo final es una relación de largo plazo: dejas de girar platos y te comprometes demasiado pronto. ¿Así que tu objetivo es tener una relación duradera? Vas a sentirte como si ya hubieras cumplido tu propósito. Énfasis en propósito, porque no hay nada que te haga sentir mejor que haber cumplido tu propósito. (No necesito listar los porqué). Y ahí es cuando empezás a temer perderla y junto con ella tu estatus de «haber logrado tu propósito». Tenes miedo de perderla si seguís buscando y girando platos. Muchos redpilleros no entienden las razones de girar platos. Vamos a explicarlo muy brevemente acá: no giras platos solo porque te gusta tener sexo con muchas mujeres. Girar platos es una herramienta poderosisima para encontrar que tipo de mujer es compatible con vos, y ademas aprender a saber cuales son potables para tener una relación de verdad con ellas. Esta diseñado para darte una mentalidad de abundancia y lograr que realmente conozcas a la mujer antes de dar el salto a una relación. La razón por la que te quedas con ella no es solo porque te gusta el sexo y toda la boludez romántica que hacen juntos. Te quedas con ella porque ella probó ser compatible con vos. La elegís a ella entre una multitud de otras opciones (tus platos).
  • Si fuiste un beta toda tu vida, la cantidad de validación que vas a recibir en esta situación va a ser sobrecogedora. Uno de los primeros objetivos que cualquier redpillero debería ponerse es dejar de depender de cualquier tipo de validación. Pero la realidad es que no es fácil. Especialmente si hace mucho tiempo que no recibís algo de ella. Se precavido, incluso bien adentrado en tu camino redpillero, la necesidad de validación va a permanecer siendo tu punto más débil. Es tu talón de aquiles.

Combiná todo lo anterior y vas a poder empezar a entender como es que un beta que desarrolla algunas cualidades alfa y ha mejorado su atractividad puede terminar cayendo en la trampa de una viuda alfa incluso sabiendo la teoría de la Red Pill.

No. Caigas. En. Esta. Trampa.

Conclusión

Incluso aunque estés bien adentrado en tu camino redpillero de beta a alfa, necesitas estar al tanto del peligro de caer nuevamente en el mundo blue pill y de terminar enganchándote con una viuda alfa que celebra la novedad de «por fin tengo un novio». No, no encontraste tu unicornio, no, no deberías dejar de girar platos, no, no poder bajar la guardia.

Las reglas de La Red Pill siempre se aplican.

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Cómo la preselección te consigue chicas

In early 2007, back when I was still trying to figure out how to achieve consistent results picking up women in bars and nightclubs, I took some time to look back over the successful pickups I’d had over the past 6 or 7 months to see what common patterns I could pick out among them.

I noticed a few trends: I’d often had a sociable night early on, talking to different people, before meeting a girl. Sometimes I had social proof.

And almost ALL the time… I had preselection.

It blew my mind when I realized it.

Right after I’d end an interaction with an attractive girl who clearly had a good time talking to me, I’d meet the girl I’d end up picking up. Like clockwork. I even started to think that, had the roles been reversed – say, had I met the girls in the reverse order, maybe I would’ve picked up the other one instead.

Could it be that all you REALLY needed to get girls was preselection and an emphasis on moving fast?

preselection

Even to-date, most of my fastest pickups have come after a smattering of preselection to grease the wheels of the coming seduction.

And if you’re not using it in YOUR interactions with women… you are sorely missing out, my friend.

Allow me to explain.

 

Mate Poaching: Not Just for Chimpanzees

In a paper entitled «Who’s chasing whom? The impact of gender and relationship status on matepoaching,» published in 2009 in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, Jessica Parker and Melissa Burkley arrived at the following results:

“Are women more interested in men who are already in a relationship? Female and male participants who were single or in a relationship viewed information about an opposite-sex other and indicated their interest in pursuing this target. Half of the participants were told that the target was single and half read that the target was currently in a relationship. The results showed that only single women were more interested in pursuing an attached target rather than a single target. We discuss how these results add to what is already known about matepoaching.”

In other words, the women who were unattached were MOST interested in the men who were ATTACHED.

Now… that’s odd, isn’t it?

Well, not really.

If you consider female evolutionary strategy, it’s primarily about minimizing risk.

The men are the risk takers: from a purely biological standpoint, you could go out and have sex with some undesirable girl, get her pregnant, and never have it slow you down one bit because you’re on to the next one. A woman, on the other hand, if she sleeps with a random guy who isn’t all that great and becomes pregnant HERSELF… historically, now she’s stuck (these days, she’s got a few options, and society is a lot less judgmental than at most other times in the history of civilization… but still).

Now, ethics and morality play a role of course in how freewheeling you as a man will actually be, and how choosy as a woman she will actually be, but this is the underlying in-built awareness we each have as separate genders:

  • If you’re a guy, sex is cheap – you only have to stick around if you want to
  • If you’re a gal, sex is potentially very pricey – it might come with the price tag of a lifetime

For that reason, women tend to be a lot more choosy in whom they mate with.

(at this point, a few guys always get upset and say, «Women are NOT choosy… they keep sleeping with bad boys and avoiding guys like ME!» but this stems from an ignorance in those men of what it is women are actually looking for in mates, rather than any kind of faulty programming in women)

So, women are choosy. It’s important that they end up with the right guy. And the men they most want to breed with are the alpha males, the dominant males, and men of that ilk.

Except, every guy KNOWS this and every guy wants to PORTRAY himself as one of these guys.

And women know guys do this.

So how’s a gal supposed to know who’s the real deal, and who’s just selling snake oil?

The Role of Preselection in Mate Selection

One of the most fascinating things I’ve noticed has been women’s sensitivity to social proof and preselection in ALL things… not just mate selection.

Many times I’ve stopped by a restaurant with a girl, only to have her complain that she doesn’t want to eat there because the restaurant is empty and mustn’t be very good. Or, I’ve gone to an amusement park, but she’s had us shy away from the rides with no lines and directed us towards the ones with the longest lines.

I see an empty restaurant and think, «Great! Fast service!» I see a lineless amusement park ride and say, «Excellent! No waiting!»

But a girl sees these things and thinks, «Uh-oh… why isn’t anyone ELSE here?»

Well, in order to rule out the guys who are all talk and no walk, women have a lot of mate selection techniques that parallel this line of reasoning exactly.

Creepy guys aren’t creepy because they’ve got horns growing out of their foreheads. They’re creepy because women’s subconscious is using aversion to prevent any mating «accidents» from occurring with men it’s deemed undesirable to mate with.

Just look at the things women find most attractive and how they come about in men:

  1. Confidence, self-assuredness, and other forms of nonverbal attraction that develop in men as they become experienced at getting women and have already been with a healthy number of attractive women
  2. Social proof and obvious alphaness (not acting like an alpha, but actually being witnessed AS the alpha – the guy who’s the leader of the group) where a girl sees a guy being revered and respected by others, especially if they’re others she admirers, accepts as peers, or aspires to join
  3. Preselection – actually seeing a guy with attractive women who clearly like him
  4. Generosity (giving something significant to a friend or even a homeless person, say) and throwing money around / engaging in conspicuous consumption (we haven’t covered this one on the blog because it’s the hardest to train up unless you’ve actually got the money to do it, but the effects of conspicuous consumption are actually almost as powerful as preselection itself, which is arguably the most powerful aphrodisiac)

These are what you’d call evidentiary proof of his social and sexual attractiveness, and these features are way, way more important to women in mating and attraction than anything else a man could say (easy to lie) or do (easy to pretend).

Because THESE things are nearly impossible to pretend.

preselection

Your nonverbal fundamentals, social proof, preselection, and conspicuous consumption are, you might say, your tools for blowing away a woman’s objections to mating with you.

You really only need one of them to get girls at least some of the time. Combine two of them, and you’ll be a rock star. Three, and you’re a god with women. All four, and you can have any woman you want.

But if you’ve only got to choose – or, if you’re just starting out and don’t have the confidence and vibe down yet, and you’d really like to get a few layups in the game – the most powerful of these, hands down, is preselection.

Why Preselection Kicks So Much Butt

I’ve had nights where I’ve been feeling pretty «off,» but through sheer dumb luck (and a little bit of trained-up skill) I managed to have a decent conversation with a girl, and had it end amicably on a nice note. Immediately after, on some of these occasions, I’ve had girls come right up next to me.

These girls blow open. You can open them with a direct opener, an indirect opener; you can even botch the opener. You can talk about the most stupid things in the world. Much of the time, it doesn’t matter, so long as you move things forward rapidly.

The reason why I say many of my fastest pickups have come after a preselection event is because the girls you meet immediately after you’ve been preselected tend to be really, really warm to you.

Now, what this means:

  • I’m not talking about meeting a girl and then meeting the girl right next to her, although that can work sometimes too, but the hit rate will be lower
  • Rather, I’m talking about meeting a girl, and then meeting the girls who come up and position themselves near you or start doing things to get your attention afterward

What’s happened here is this: women are highly socially attuned, so when they see a woman is talking to you and clearly engaged and possibly attracted, they take note. They mentally jot down, «Hmm, he looks like a pretty good bet to be a viable mating option,» and start keeping an eye on you.

You trigger that same switch in single women that attached men do in that study from earlier.

And then… the girl you were just talking to leaves… and this new girl suddenly shows up or catches your eye (or, sometimes, I’ve a few times had girls interrupt my conversations with other girls to introduce themselves and make themselves known – this is, in as few words as possible, the girl making it as clear as she possibly can to you that you need to mate with her immediately – just follow your process and move fast).

It ends up working like a sort of «peacocking on steroids» – you’re using the girl who’s preselected you to show off to other women that, yes – I am a man other women want.

And everything’s a whole lot easier after that.

How to Use This in Your Pickups (and Elsewhere)

Because preselection is so powerful, you should be looking to use it as much as possible.

It can almost be a magic pill when you’re still starting out: you don’t have your sexy vibe down yet, you don’t have a solid process, you don’t ooze confidence and drip charisma and emit mating signals like the guy who’s been at this a long time… yet, a little preselection, and suddenly it’s all but in the bag with the next girl you meet.

This works great for experienced guys though too: rather than spending an hour showing her your qualities, you can do it in minutes. You can have her out of there with you in minutes. It adds a degree of consistency and reliability to your pickups that it’s hard to find without it.

Preselection is useful in one other area too: restoring attraction in relationships or «just friends» situations. It even works when you’ve inadvertently placed a girl in auto-rejection; preselection is one of the very few things that can bring her back.

Preselection is the power to attract women at will… so long as you can let them see you being attractive to other women.

preselection

When I was starting out, preselection was one of the things I spent a lot of time getting down. I wanted women to see me being attractive to women. It makes your life easier… significantly so, in fact.

And here’s how you use it:

  1. First, find a spot that’s conspicuous where you can talk to women. If you’re in a bar or a nightclub, this is often in the center area of a mostly-empty bar, or just off the dance floor, again right in the middle of the room. If you’re in a store or a mall or an office, this is out in the middle of dead space, smack in the center of the place. If you’re in a classroom, this is up at the front of class, in front of everyone who’s sitting behind you.

    Note: there’s some risk involved here – you lose face if things don’t go well, but you look like every girl’s dream guy if they do. You’ll have to gauge accordingly. Also, if you’re at a bar or club, you’ll want to choose a location that will be easy for women to approach you in – mind the Law of Least Effort. Women are naturally attuned to this, and if she’s got to walk halfway around the bar very conspicuously to get near you, she won’t do it. Make sure it’s easy for her to reach you. You can sometimes adjust if you met a girl in one place by moving somewhere closer to the girl you want to approach you afterward to give her an opportunity to get nearer.

  2. Then… talk to women! You want to get into a conversation with a girl – the prettier, the better. And at least ONE of you should visibly be having a good time. It’s better if she is and you’re aloof… but if she isn’t biting or is being the aloof one, you can still get some mileage out of having a good time yourself (laughing, talking animatedly with her), though it won’t compare with what you get if you do a good job with her and SHE is clearly the more interested party. The girls who are watching you are sharp cookies – they can tell if she’s feeling you (or not).
  3. Next, wait for the girl who’s going to position herself near you once you’re done talking to that first girl. Occasionally she’ll open you herself, but don’t count on this. Girls are most likely to approach you the first chance they get – she’ll position herself next to you right after you finish talking to another girl at the bar, or she’ll brush up against you right as you’re leaving class, or she’ll veer over to walk near you at the mall or in the office.
  4. Open her fast, and open direct. Don’t beat around the bush on this one. She’s nervous, excited, and sees you as a rare treat – one of those few men that she KNOWS is a good bet – other women like him! Don’t hesitate – she’ll lose her nerve quickly, think you’re out of her league, and auto-reject; rather, jump on the opportunity the instant it presents itself, make her feel good, and say hi. «Oh hey,» you might say to her as she brushes by you – then stop and wait. She turns to face you, and: «Your walk… [pause] it’s absolutely killer. I just noticed that… it’s kind of hard not to, though. I’m Chase.»
  5. Move fast. You know the mantra on here… don’t stand around wondering what to do; instead, keep things moving. That’s even more important here – if she’s seen you talking with another attractive girl who likes you, she’s ready, much of the time. Use the minimal amount of steps required to progress things forward with her, and get her moving with you and somewhere the two of you can be alone together as rapidly as you possibly can.

And, the fun thing about preselection is that sometimes the girl you started talking to for building up your preselection rating is actually really into you already in the first place! You’ll also have a much easier time meeting new women if you still grapple with approach anxiety if you’re going in with the understanding that this first girl is just to get some preselection going on… you won’t be so worried about how things go with her, necessarily.

When girls already see that other girls find you to be a sexually exciting and attractive man, everything else with those future girls you’ll meet (or ones you’ve known for a while whom you’re trying to excite about you once more) goes so much more smoothly you’d be amazed.

Talk with you next time.

Always,
Chase

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Ser un Tipo Bueno es una forma de extremismo

Hay dos extremos en la vida… El tipo bueno™ y el Forro™

El Tipo bueno™ no sabe que es un extremista. Su mente fue lavada por el proceso de indoctrinacion Blue Pill para que piense de una sola manera y eso hace que su forma de ver la vida no sea balanceada.

El Forro™ es el tipo que esta completamente separado de la mentalidad de la mañada. Literalmente le chupan un huevo los demas. A las mujeres les atrae esto porque representa el extremo opuesto del Tipo bueno™, sin embargo reconocen que si es puramente un Forro™, no hay chances de domarlo para novio… ninguna.

Las mujeres tienen dos pruebas para ver los extremos:

  • Prueba de mierda – Esto prueba si hay demasiada compasión.
  • Prueba de confort – Esto prueba si hay demasiada severidad.

Las mujeres no tienen una realidad propia. Solo reflejan la realidad del hombre con quien se enganchan. El acceso a hombres que demuestran un conocimiento de ambos extremos es el ideal para las mujeres y es por eso que emplean ambas pruebas.

Conclusión

El Tipo bueno™ representa el extremo de tener demasiada compasión… el extremista beta.

El Forro™ tiene una actitud IDGAF (no me importa nada) que hace que las mujeres sientan una atraccion inicial hacia el, pero su severidad en relacion con los demas (puro ego) hace que no tenga suficiente confort. Va a cabalgar la pija de Juan Chotalarga (Chad Thundercock) porque representa el anti-Tipo Bueno™ pero sabe que no hay manera de que pueda conseguir una pareja de él. (su objetivo es obtenerlo)

La mujer desea un hombre balanceado… ni puro beta, ni puro forro.

La mujer se adapta a si misma en torno a su hombre.

El hombre debe recompensar y castigar tanto con compasión como con severidad, ya que esto es lo que significa la masculinidad.

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La hija de Lucifer

«Para ella solo sos un juguete; te va a convertir en rey para luego incendiar tu trono» – Anónimo

Contenido:
1.) Introduccion
2.) Caracterización de la Psicópata Femenina
3.) Metodologia Interpersonal de la Mujer Psicopata
4.) Las Mujeres Psicopatas y el Sexo
5.) En Resumen
6.) Lectura Relevante

1.) Introduccion:

Las mujeres de la Tríada Obscura son mujeres que poseen un trastorno de empatía cero negativo; un «desorden de empatía cero negativo» es un termino acuñado por el investigador de autismo Simon Baron-Cohen de la Universidad de Cambridge. Significa: «un faltante de empatia afctiva» (la habilidad de sentir lo que otro siente de la manera que lo sienten, ej: tristeza) combinado con un faltante de procupacion moral por el bienestar de los demas. Ambas cosas deben estar presentes para constituir el desorden de empatía cero negativo, caso contrario terminamos con una diferente clasificación del trastorno de empatia, por ejemplo el autismo.

El trastorno de empatía cero negativo incluye predominantemente a narcisistas y psicopatas, asi tambien como casos mas límite en un menor nivel aunque de forma significativa. Excluye a aquellos en el espectro autista que poseen deficiencias empaticas, pero que tipicamente no son ni Maquiavelicos ni moralmente negativos. Este articulo se basa en una mujer a la que estimo es del tipo P (psicopata) o, si usamos un termino clinico, una mujer con un trastorno antisocial de la personalidad (TPA).

Es prudente para el tipo comun tratar con este grupo colectivo de «psicopatas» como iguales, ya que todos se comportan tan astuta y despiadadamente como «una verdadera psicopata» ya sea que tienen TPA o no.

En este artículo debato sobre la psicopata femenina, o como coloquialmente nos referimos entre un amigo y yo, «la hija de Lucifer». El termino lo elegimos para describir la naturaleza fría y retorcida de la mujer tríada obscura; la eleccion del termino religioso se utiliza para enfatizar la peligrosidad de tales mujeres.

2.) Caracterización de la Psicópata Femenina

Las mujeres psicopatas son increiblemente calculdoras, al igual que su contraparte masculina, tienden hacia las acciones inmorales basandose en la amoralidad del pensamiento poco convencional. Son increiblemente oportunistas e indiferentes hacia los demas, a la vez que son competentes en simular sentimientos con el solo proposito de la disimulacion. Su pensamiento es solipsista y a la vez pragmático, su percepcion de los demas se puede resumir como: «que hace esta persona por mi, si no hace nada, que podría hacer por mi y como puedo manipularlo para que lo haga?»

Las mujeres con un trastorno empatico del tipo P son las que yo considero la crème de la crème, el epitome por excelencia de la psicopatia femenina. Uns sadista al maximo de sus funciones con un muy alto CI (Coeficiente Intelectual), no la tipica histerica desafortunada que se asocia en general con la psicopatia femenina. No, esta mujer es un super depredador que se adorna solo casualmente con ropas de oveja cuando tal cosa le parezca que es la estrategia optima. Es una mujer que le da vueltas a los hombres, poniendosela dificil incluso a los hombres P.

These are women of incredible psychological prowess who utilise the power of the victim in all its perverse and incredible might to amass hordes of allies who’ll put themselves on the line so that she need not. Like their narcissistic counterparts, for better or worse they excel at creating a cult of personality. Think of Trump, only female, about 25 and as equally mind-violating in her use of “straight forward honesty.” Her honesty being more of the tactical, brutal and shit testing kind, deliberate and aggressive in its nature rather than clumsily inappropriate. Her pertinence but a weapon dressed in the clothing of honesty, something flaunted as virtue when it is quite the contrary.

To such a woman, there is no sanctity in human life, for an inability to pair bond lends to itself to a most unthinkable and effortless degree of objectifying dehumanisation. She uses people like consumptive items (a can of drink, a pack of gum) and once they carry out the functions imagined for them, they are disposed of. If she finds another (new) use for them, the cycle will repeat. If she cannot, she’s gone. A small frail psychopathic woman need not lift a weight nor a finger, for if her psychopathy is accompanied by physical beauty, she has all the power necessary to command those around her. Type P women are social predators drawn to those in positions of power, their sole aim to co-opt influence.

Much like their male counterparts, female psychopaths possess a psychological plurality in who they decide to associate with. They are attracted to people who fall on the extremes of personality, not the average. For example, type P women are fond of the weak and naive. They love to make others instruments of their will, and the cognitively weak represent easy pickings for an intraspecies predator. Like any predator, whilst a battery of easy pickings is always necessary for hard times, the hunt is its own sport, a guilty pleasure for the bored psychopath. As such, the powerful are not just coveted for their influence, but likewise the challenge that they symbolise. She welcomes conflict, for prey that fights is the height of fun.

Early on such a woman can be quite charming. Once trust is built she changes tack, switching to coercion and calculated aggression. Whilst emotionally violent she will blame the target for her abusive tirades, validating her cruelty on the slightest observation of guilt or reticence. She will continue in this systematic campaign of mental pressure (consisting mainly of push/pull tactics, veiled threats and wild accusations) until the target yields, her goal to emotionally exhaust the target into a pliable state. She does not care if she controls a person through fear or love for both are merely a means to an end. Once a person falls into her web, she becomes very territorial of them. Commands are issued under the threat of gaslighting. Should you defy her, she will escalate her assault to keep you complicit.

3.) Female Psychopathic Interpersonal Methodology:

Firstly, she will try to isolate you from your peers and family. She might do this by accusing you of something extremely unsavoury (e.g.: physical abuse) to win over the sympathies of your natural allies. Once you are estranged from your emotional support, she will target you with more focus, gaslighting you with repetitive cycles of scorn and forgiveness. This will continue until you’re inculcated into believing her untrue portrayal of events.

Psychopaths of higher intelligence incorporate elements of truth into their fabrications in order to make them plausible. Once you feel guilty enough to take responsibility for fictional events, she will leverage the responsibility you feel to reassert control. She will reel you back in, except angry that she had to exercise her grip on your reins, she will punish you for your attempt at escape. Psychopathic women are vulnerable to abandonment because they are extremely egotistical. It offends the sensibilities of the psychopath to communicate you have the power to leave them. Inversely, she may have no qualms with abandoning you, but the exit must be on her terms. If it is not, as a product of ego, she will relentlessly obsess in achieving vengeance.

The type P woman is a creature of schadenfreude, for those who don’t understand the term, it’s a loanword from German that directly translates as “harm-joy.” Put more aptly it means “to derive joy from another’s pain.” Type P woman have a knack for finding that someone or something which symbolises your weakness.  When they discover it, they will pervert, corrupt and expose it in an attempt to mount an attack against you.

Quintessentially psychopathic women make for fine tacticians. They understand the importance of monopolising the herd, that one must ostracise, or be ostracised. In line with their sadistic tendencies, they derive great joy from seeing your allies alienate you, be it immediate or gradual. The severity of the ploy used to ensure your ostracisation depends on the context and aim of the woman in question. It can be as mild as diminishing your popularity to reappropriate people’s favour, or something more akin to what was previously described, all out psychological warfare.

If you are weak, a type P woman will expose the full height of her power, downplaying subtlety and indirectness for a more brutish approach. However if you are powerful, she will puppeteer rather than colonise. In dealings with the powerful they tend to opt for charm rather than coercion, recognising a far lower chance of victory in a direct conflict. To become favoured they turn themselves into the target’s source of dopamine, overwhelming them with positive feelings in order to form mental dependence. At a glance this may sound harmless, but the intent is insidious nevertheless. The psychopathic women wishes a powerful target to crave her, for it is via that mechanism she can control them.

4.) Psychopathic Women & Sex:

Regardless of her specific cluster B classification, sex with a dark triad woman is never recommended. Typically when a man and a woman have sex there is a psychological power exchange that leaves the woman feeling exposed, and the man, stronger. This is not the case with a female type P. Such a woman does not feel “used up” for sexing her target, quite the contrary, she feels empowered, for she has acquired leverage. And should you ignore her leverage prompting her to publicly reveal your liaisons, she has the perfect spin prepared. Spin that society is all too willing and eager to eat up “he took advantage of me.” If it’s your word against hers, you will lose.

If she can become a source of sex, you will become increasingly addicted to her. And should you choose to cut her off, she has the ability to threaten your reputation. When things turn ugly the sex becomes a weaponised secret, leverage for blackmail that can be used to threaten your job or your family should you not comply with her wishes. Even before she inevitably escalates she has won, because men are malleable when they are getting “crazy girl sex.” And should this man come to his senses and wish to escape her influence? She wins yet again because she has the leverage to blackmail. Such a man finds himself stuck between a rock and a hard place, for bribery does nought but win a promise of retreat, it does not negate her leverage. Nothing stops her taking a bribe for her silence, only to instigate further blackmail at a later date.

Psychopathic women covet secrets because they understand profoundly that the holder of secrets holds the keys to power. And so should such a woman be unable to uncover any secrets, she will create one to get the leverage she seeks. And what better way to do this than through “forbidden sex,” to fuck her target? The type P woman seeks leverage by any means necessary. Knowing that the powerful will be incredibly resistant to a more direct approach she adopts an insidious albeit innocuous one.

Despite the predatory nature of type P women, the malevolence of their nature is normally rationalised by self-identifying as a victim. The whole filter for their reality is seen through that of an unaccountable victim’s, and it is within this mental construct they self-justify carte blanche ruthlessness. The objective predator uses the psychology of prey to justify its predation, a marvellous feat of self-deception. And so it is thus apparent that the truly best deceivers begin with themselves.

5.) In Closing:

Type P women have no concept of loyalty, their loyalty is only for their self-interest. They are the centre of their world; everyone else is just an observation, a pawn, a by-product, a target, an obstruction and so forth. Due to empathy deficiency and an incapacity to pair-bond, they epitomise the distrust they hold for others. Their power but a combination of their attraction and machiavellian prowess. This is how they attain gratification and stimulation in a world they feel perpetually disconnected from and underwhelmed by.

Perversely, the closest thing to bonding a dark triad woman experiences is when she tortures a target with her more aggressive side. The relationship between abuser and abusee is the closest thing to love a type P woman is capable of; somewhat ironically this is how they “love.” Call it reverse Stockholm syndrome if you will. Like other dark triad women, the type P thrives in chaos. She holds nothing but contempt for peace, for with peace there is no emotional energy to harness and self-stimulate with. Think of dark triad women as human poltergeists, they need conflict in order to feed their compulsion to dominate their surroundings. Where a chaos deprived atmosphere pervades for too long, they will go out of their way to create drama as a way of reasserting themselves.

Psychopathic women are not well-suited to any but the most empathy deficient and thrill-seeking of men. Even her relationship with a dark triad man is nought but a union of two sadistic thrill seekers engaged in a perpetual wrestle for power. If you are not high enough on the psychopathy spectrum to derive enjoyment from the conflict of a psychopathic woman’s unending histrionics, you’d do well to steer clear. Believe me when I say that the mere words here do no justice in expressing the true severity of what they describe. If you meet one of these women and aren’t dark triad yourself, run and don’t turn back.

6.) Relevant Reading:

Wisdom of the Psychopaths is written by Professor Kevin Dutton of Oxford, he talks about the positives of psychopathy and how they are crucial to certain job roles (soldiers, surgeons, finance etc.) When you want to know how psychopathy manifests and effects different industries, this is what you want to read.

Buy “The Wisdom of the Psychopaths” in the USA
Buy “The Wisdom of the Psychopaths” in the UK
Buy The Wisdom of the Psychopaths in Canada

Professor Simon Baron-Cohen discusses various kinds of empathy deficiency, including psychopathy, borderline personality and narcissism. He also goes into detail about the neuroanatomy of the brain’s empathy circuit. When you want to understand the complexity of empathy disorders, this is the book you’re looking for.

Buy “Zero Degrees of Empathy” in the USA
Buy “Zero Degrees of Empathy” in the UK
Buy “Zero Degrees of Empathy” in the Canada

 

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Resumen ejecutivo de la Red Pill — COMPLETISIMO

Introducción

¿Qué es la Red Pill?

Este artículo explica por qué estamos acá y cuál es el foco de nuestra misión. En resumen lo que dice es que estamos acá para ayudarnos mutuamente con conocimientos y consejos y así mejorar nuestra ventaja:

Glosario y terminología

Varios de los términos que usamos en este lugar están explicados, aunque sea brevemente en ese artículo.


Lectura sobre los orígenes

Las siguientes entradas proveen el contexto y los orígenes sobre las razones por las que existe la Red Pill y a traves de los años ayudaron a moldear el foco de nuestra misión.

Los hombres no están contentos.
La burbuja de la misandria
La historia de Miguel
Confesiones de un perdedor reformado
El Hombre manipulado
El Sexo Polígamo


Lectura Teórica

Una vez que pudiste digerir el material anterior, seguí con la teoría. Cada sección se separa en fases para ayudarte a entender y reforzar los conceptos centrales y las filosofías que LRP adopta.

Fase 1: Las diferencias fundamentales sobre cómo aman el hombre y la mujer.

Mujeres enamoradas  y Hombres enamorados
Estos artículos contrastan de muy buena manera las diferencias de cómo expresan el romance los hombres y las mujeres. Sabemos que, al contrario de la creencia popular, son los hombres los verdaderos románticos de la sociedad. Un artículo que los sigue es Sobre el Amor y la Guerra, que se puede resumir con la frase «el concepto de amor de las mujeres no es el que les hacen creer a los hombres».

Programas de apareamiento
Cualquiera que esté familiarizado con los ciclos mensuales femeninos sabe muy bien que las preferencias de las mujeres cambian. Así también lo hacen sus deseos y atraccion hacia los hombres masculinos y afeminados. Lo principal es que durante la ovulación las mujeres muestran mas piel y tienden a preferir hombres mas dominantes y trazas «alfa».

Dos tipos de amor principales
Un tanteo superficial sobre el control del Relato. Rollo Tomassi se expandió mucho mas sobre el tema en su blog «El Hombre Racional».

Fase 2: El enfoque pluralista y mercenario de las mujeres a las relaciones.

Ley de Briffault
Un concepto central, con algunos corolarios que describe como las mujeres no expresan lealtad a los hombres beta por el cuidado, provisionamiento entregado previamente por el hombre-

Sobre el Valor y el Valor de las Mujeres
El valor que tanto hombres como mujeres aportan es diferente. El valor de las mujeres viene de ser mientras que el valor de los hombres viene de hacer. Para que una mujer pueda tener sexo, solo tiene que aparecer para que los hombres se le tiren. Para un hombre, tiene que bailar al ritmo de ella y ser de un alto estatus y esto y aquello y lo otro. Los hombres buscan sexo de las mujeres, y no al revés. Al contrario, las mujeres seleccionan que hombre de la multitud que la busca será con el que tendrá sexo.

Hipergamia 01: Las mujeres ven a los hombres como los hombres ven a los trabajos.

Hipergamia 02: Su percepción y contexto son TODO

Fase 3: Liberando a tu mente de la programación social «blue pill»

Powertalk 101

Este es un muy buen resumen de las piruetas mentales y jugadas de poder utilizadas en el lenguaje y sobre cómo las mujeres utilizan subterfugio para engañar a los hombres que no están al tanto del subtexto utilizado.

El manifiesto de la Red Pill y esta Compilación de Videos Red Pill

Expandimos un poco los conceptos encontrados en el Glosario de Terminos.

La Estrategia Sexual es Amoral

La seduccion y la estrategia sexual no tiene un valor moral intrinseco por si mismo; todo depende de como lo uses.

Fase 4: Entendiendo el poder, organización, y la tirania de las mujeres.

La utopía sexual al poder.

Este articulo discute la forma en la que el matrimonio y la monogamia restringe la hipergamia femenina para beneficiar a la civilización. Para aquellos que no estan familiarizados con la historia, Henry IV dijo, «No quiero que haya ningun campesino en mi reino que sea tan pobre que no tenga pollo en su guiso de los Domingos».  El ex presidente Hoover usó la misma linea de razonamiento en su campaña presidencial. El matrimonio y la monogamia y las convenciones sociales limitan a las mujeres a un solo compañero, le sirvio para proveer al hombre del equivalente sexual de «un pollo cada Domingo». Hacer eso fue bueno porque sirvió como incentivo  lo que llevó a los hombres a crear la civilización como la conocemos

En cuanto se forman harems para los hombres de elite y quedan grandes grupos de hombres sin acceso sexual, termina sucediendo una revuelta social.

La razón oculta por la que las mujeres “odian” a los hombres

La Internet le dio cabida a un nuevo tipo de grupo de apoyo masculino… o club de hombres, donde los hombres pueden comparan experiencias y ver si una mujer los esta cagando o no. Esto le quita a las mujeres un poder que venian disfruranto y se lo da a los hombres. En muchos casos para esos hombres tener ese poder es algo que les sucede por primera vez en su vida. A escala social las mujeres sienten este cambio como una amenaza y es por eso que nos atacan y pelean como una forma de volver a poner al genio en la botella.

Mu

 

Women: The Most Responsible Teenager In The House
There thread has created a lot of butthurt since it was made, but the theories in which it espouses are sound, particularly in dealing with women’s shit testing in long term relationships (LTR), the roles men and women are naturally predisposed to, and the establishment and enforcement of boundaries. This is the article that the thread is in response to.

Applying Red Pill Concepts To Your Daily Lives

48 Day of Power Supethread
48 Laws of Power from a Red Pill perspective.

All-in-One Legal Compilation Guide For Men
An unfortunately necessity in this day and age.

All-in-One Red Pill 101
This thread is a great primer of the Game aspect of TRP as described in the Introduction above. It also expands upon the core concepts found in the Glossary and Terms.

Feminist Shaming Tactics and What You Can’t Say
It’s important to familiarize yourself with the logical fallacies and bad faith arguments feminists use when discussing gender issues online and in the media, and how the media is controlled/constrained by those in power to service the feminine imperative. Note: The essay is linked in the What You Can’t Say thread, and is not the thread itself.

Goals
A how-to guide for creating goals and staying on track.

LTR Checklist and Unicorn Hunting
A great list of red (and green) flags to help you ascertain if a woman is worthy of your commitment.

Self-Acceptance
Life is short so make it a good one. And don’t sweat the small stuff.

Shit Tests 101
Comprehensive introduction to shit tests.

Shit Tests 201
In effect this was a follow-up to the above thread on Shit Tests.

The Red Pill Interacting With Other Subreddits
This thread offers some practical advice for dealing with other subreddits that are vehemently «blue pull» and their alternatives.

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Verdades universales

Cuanto más fuerte protestan y más rapido pasan a los insultos es cuando mas cerca estas de decirles una verdad que les incomoda.

Cuantó mas enojado reacciona a una crítica, mas probable es que tu crítica haya sido correcta. Para las mujeres multiplicá el factor de enojo por diez.

Si podes auto-criticarte, sos valioso.

Si sos capaz de presumir sin molestar a nadie ni generar resentimiento es porque no sos valioso.

Todas las mujeres – TODAS, en serio – son infieles si se cumplen las condiciones necesarias.

El momento en el que empezas a gastar plata en una mujer es el momento en el que ella empieza a esperar que gastes plata en ella.

  • Corolario: Si gastas plata en una mujer como si fuera una puta, eso es lo que vas a conseguir.

Incluso si te volves mundialmente famoso y dejas cientos de hijos y nietos por todo el mundo, tu legado va a ser el mismo que el de un linyera solitario. Mejor vivir el ahora y maximizar tu placer.

El unico momento en el que esta bien reirse de uno mismo es cuando hacerlo te aumenta tu valor frente a los demas, o cuando reduce el daño a el mismo.

Legalizar la prostitucion reduciria los casos de violación.

Usar prostitutas alivia los sintomas de la betez, pero la unica cura es recibir el amor de una mujer.

Nunca gastes mas que el valor de un par de tragos en una mujer antes de cojer con ella. Si vas a pagar por una mujer, mejor para por una prostituta. Al menos con ella sabes que la vas a poner.

Si no te queda otra opcion, tratar a las mujeres para el culo te va a conseguir mayor satisfaccion romantica y sexual que tratarlas como un caballero.

No te cases. El pedazo de papel no es neceario para tener una relacion amorosa con una mujer. Cualquier mujer con la que estes saliendo que te diga lo contrario no te ama de verdad.

La pregunta que te tenes queh acer no es «¿Le gustaré?», sino 2¿Realmente la quiero?».

El relato mas fuerte que podes usar en cualquier tipo de interaccion con una mujer es el relato de calificarla a ella.

La habilidad mas poderosa que podes utilizar en cualquier tipo de interaccion con una mujer es la habilidad de escuchar y recordar.

La primera impresion mas fuerte que le podes dar a una mujer es la forma en la que la pasas por encima / dominas.

La imagen mas poderosa que le podes mostrar a una mujer es una de contrastes. Nada crea mas intriga que el contraste.

Nadie nace con rencor, el rencor se va haciendo con el tiempo.

Si no estas preparado mentalmente para que tu novia te deje mañana, es muy probable que lo haga.

Algo que nunca vas a oir en terapia de pareja: La tasa de divorcios se reduciría a la mitar di los hombres aprendieran a decir «Callate la boca» y las mujeres mantuvieran la misma talla del dia de su casamiento.

Todas las mujeres tienen una puta interior. Pagale con la moneda de una buena cojida.

No dejes que la realidad biologica del amor te quite la belleza del mismo. No permitas que el amor te ciegue a la realidad de ganartelo.

La gente es mas sincera cuando esta recontra enojada.

No te tomes serio cuando los demas lo hacen. Tomate en serio cuando los demas no lo hacen.

Si necesitas un conjunto de reglas claras para vos, la regla de las tres citas es un buen lugar para empezar. (¿Mas de tres citas sin sexo? ¡siguiente!)

Disfruta del odio tanto como disfrutas del amor. Ambos pueden ser una energia creativa y te vuelven una persona normal.

Es mas probablemente verdad que una esposa ame a su marido deforme que un marido ame a su mujer deforme.

¿La diferencia mas grande entre el hombre y la mujer? El hombre puede poner su pene en la calida vagina de una mujer totalmente extraña sin necesidad de decir una palabra.

Los hombres que realmente creen en el feminismo son unos betas imbéciles. Un alfa puede llegar a repetir las mentiras del feminismo pero nunca tomarlas en serio ni actuar acorde a esos principios.

A tus genes no les importas una mierda. Su unico objetivo es replicarse, no hacerte feliz.

Vas a conseguir mas minas sin dejas de salir los Lunes a la noche y empezas a salir los Viernes a la noche.

El sarcasmo es la herramienta de alguien inseguro.

Si tu mujer te miente en la cara, dejala inmediatamente. Ya no hay nada bueno que puedas sacar de esa relacion.

Adopta la mentalidad de abundancia en lugar de escasez. Se va a transformar en una profecia auto-cumplida. Es la manera de nunca perder a una chica. Y en tu valentía ella nunca va a querer dejarte.

Hacete el habito de imaginarte muerto dentro de un año. ¿Qué harias diferente hoy?

La mejor forma de tener perspectiva es la de enfocarte en los que estan por debajo tuyo. La mejor forma de ganar motivacion es la de enfocarte en los que estan por encima tuyo. Mantené un balance de eso.

No dejes que nadie te diga que la venganza es el instinto de los debiles. Seguro que nunca experimentaron su dulzura.

Los juegos de niños suelen ser muy buenas citas de adultos.

La lástima es una forma de desprecio, no dejes que nadie te desprecie, no dejes que nadie sienta lastima por vos.

Cuando perdes tu curiosidad, diste un paso mas hacia ser un vegetal.

Una relacion saludable y amorosa empieza con vos creyendote superior a tu mujer.

La verdad es que te chupan un huevo los pobres.

Los preservativos son una mierda.

La circunsicion te va a hacer durar mas, a cambio de placer. Es una practica barbára.

Las mujeres aman a los hombres que se aman a si mismos. Los hombres aman a las mujeres capaces de amar a alguien mas que a si mismas.

Aprendes mas de leer la Wikipedia que de viajar de turista y ponerla en la playa en un pais extranjero.

No tengas verguenza de volverte un mito.

El credencialismo es la filosofia de los miedosos, inseguros y sumisos.

La mujer que gane tu corazon va a perder lentamente interes en vos, a menos que tomes las riendas y activamente la hagas volver a enamorarse.

Hace el amor si podes, es bueno.

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Cómo levantarse minas muy lindas en un bar

In club/bar environments it’s often thought the most difficult approach of all is directly approaching a group of uber hot women and successful endgame of taking one home. This post demonstrates a number of methods to give these girls the good seeing too they all crave and make everyone happy in the process. The methods outlined can be deconstructed and used in isolation in various other situations, but in this case they’re usually all needed due to our quarry being in a group and all hot. Social engineering methods will run alongside psychological ones for maximum impact. The group should be of a minimum of four women and a maximum of ten, and preferably receiving a lot of passive attention from other males.

Please note: This is a meta strategy to achieve an end goal. If at any point your target shows genuine interest you can skip steps, as you’re already where you want to be (but watch for compliance tests).

Step 1: Identifying Your Targets The first step is deciding which girls you’re going to use as your gateway strategy. I say, «girls» because as well as selecting a target (your end game girl) you will also need to identify one of the other girls as a leverage point for the social dynamic aspect of the method.

[ In this case it doesn’t have to be mother hen as the status of the girls in the group is pretty similar so there’s little difference in «ranking» due to them all being 9’s or 10’s.]

The girl to use as leverage will be the girl most interested in being approached and thus most likely ascribed by the other girls unconsciously as their biggest sexual rival. To identify her, study the group carefully. Your selection will seem less interested in the inane female chit chat taking place and will tend to scan the environment, looking around to check who is in the venue (which Chads) more so than the other girls.

She’s looking to see which guys are there as it’s her intention to get laid that night. She will most likely be wearing the most revealing outfit in the group and peaking in her ovulation cycle. Possibly wearing something red or maybe just red lipstick or nails as women seem to have a predilection for the colour -combined with skimpy outfits- when they’re at their most fertile, and thus at their horniest.

[Not wearing red isn’t a deal breaker, but if you’re 50/50 over two girls in the group, then use the red wearing one as your default selection. A number of scientific studies have correlated the colour to women at their most fertile/horny. As the saying goes «Red shoes, no knickers».

Women are always checking out other girls in public venues to monitor their status in the ongoing attraction hierarchy – but if you watch – you will see that girls with red clothing or nails/lipstick receive particular attention when they’re first spotted. The other girls know full well the significance of what’s going on, even if it’s just on an unconscious level.

The other girls in the group will know this too unconsciously and attempt to engineer spoiling strategies to counter their rival. You may notice they will look at her more to check what’s she’s up to and rubberneck during conversations they’re having with the others to keep tabs on her: Watch for this.

The final sign is a body language indicator much beloved by used car salesmen and one (now that you’ve read this) you’re going to see, all the time and even notice yourself doing it to the point you say «WTF!» when you see the hidden matrix of attraction cues going on around you.

Have you ever seen two people who know each other, meet and stop in the street for a chit chat, but one needs to get away because they’re busy? Have you noticed what happens to the angle of one of their feet? It POINTS towards the direction they want to go: the direction they were originally heading, it’s unconscious body language leakage indicating an ongoing desire that’s found even in higher primates.

Good car salesmen know this too, when they’re chatting to a prospect on the lot they’re keeping a close eye on where your foot is pointing as THAT’S the car you like. Your foot points towards things you like, and away from things you don’t. We all do it, I do it, you do it and hot bitches in bars do it.

Of all the body language clues the most accurate (and only ones which can be used in isolation) are eye contact and foot pointing. When you’re stood in a bar or chatting to your buddies, the default position for you feet are the 5 minutes to 1 position. Look for girls who have a foot deviating from this stance unless there’s a good reason, then look to see where it’s pointing.

[In fact; next time you’re in a bar or club with your buddies, look towards where one of your own feet are pointing. If one of them is pointed away from its default position then it’s very likely pointing towards some hottie you have your eye on]

In Summary: The girl you are going to use as leverage to assist your entry will be exhibiting what’s known as an «R cluster».

  • Reconnaissance: She’s scanning the bar looking for which guys (Chads) are in the venue as potential partners.
  • Revealing: She will most likely be the most sexily dressed of the group.
  • Red: She will most likely be wearing the colour red.
  • Real Interest: One of her feet will be pointing away from the group and towards where her real interest lays, usually a man or group of men.

[Disclaimer: allow for pointing which may be towards the bar (she wants a drink), the toilets (she needs to pee), the dancefloor (she wants to dance) or the exit (she wants to leave) although you will only see these indicators when she’s in conversation with someone else. If she’s not engaged in something she’ll just act on what she wants without pointing ]

Under any other circumstances this is the girl whom you should target in an approach strategy; whether it be a mother hen gateway -then move to your interest- or a direct approach to your interest from off the bat. Either way this is the girl most DTF that night.

In this case however, with the group all being uber hotties this is the girl you will use as your leverage point for entry – without activating any alarm bells or bitch shields [sure you can game this girl after, once you’re established yourself ] but the purpose of this strategy is gaining access first, disqualifying yourself from your approach girl (albeit temporarily) and then use your game skills to move things on.

Your actual target girl is the next one down on the «R cluster» scale. She will be exhibiting some or all of the «R cluster» traits (though not to the extent of your leverage girl) but also target girl will be rubber necking your leverage girl as her prime sexual rival that night. Women pick up on other girls who are ovulating on an unconscious level and adjust their behaviours sub consciously by mate guarding their partner more if they have one, and cockblocking their female friends if they’re both single. You’re going to use this unconscious behavioural drive for your own ends.

Step 2: The approach. In this situation you have two types of frame. 1/ The extant frame: Group of super hotties too good for anyone in the bar and «girl power» blowing off men and acting like a pack of bitches.

2/ The intrinsic frame: The real frame, a group of sexual rivals jockeying for status, utilising devious feminine psychological methods on each other, but pretending to be best girly friends while they do it.

The problem is: An extant frame can be pretty solid due to what’s known as embodied cognition and the girls actually start acting as if this is the reality they’re in, they start feeding their emotional states off each other in a feedback loop known as «Limbic resonance» and post hoc rationalising their own behaviour (known as «Hamstering»….) to avoid cognitive dissonance.

In broscience this is called «Believing your own shit». A radical deframe is required. Gentlemen, such a deframing exists.

«The Queens Of Sheba Opener.»

Internalise your RP mindset as the selector and approach your target girl direct (ensure she has a full drink as you don’t want any distractions or default «drink tooling» programs firing up). Make sure she sees you are approaching so you don’t trigger an auto pilot response by surprising her, then stop in front of her as if weighing her up for a few seconds, then ask the question.

«Who’s your friend?»

She’ll be expecting a chat up line or random beta validation, but gets surprise instead (the type we DO need) which derails normal shit testing programming (we’re also generating an emotional response here, which is good) but curiosity will make her ask…

«Which one?» [ that’s why we need a minimum of 4 girls in the group ].

With a nod of your head towards your leverage girl reply…

«The one all the guys are interested in»

This is a huge deframe. There she is enjoying all this attention and validation, then all of a sudden the rug is pulled from under her: The attention and validation may not actually be for her!

Hamster central rapidly boots up to protect her self-image.

«The guys are looking at all of us….?»

«Is nobody actually interested in me and it’s actually my friend that’s creating all this interest from guys…?»

«I’m beautiful, but is she so much more attractive than me that all these guys don’t care?»

«Am I the least attractive of my friends…?»

«What the fuck is my status in the group…?»

All these thoughts go through her head in a split second as you’ve just triggered an «imposter syndrome» program to run in her mind. Not only that, but the source of it is her prime sexual rival who she unconsciously ascribes as a threat.

Oh fucking dear…

Her status is now in limbo and needs a reference point to stabilise itself so her limbic brain creates a sense of dread causing her to reframe from the bottom up to achieve some stability to build from. The dread is hard-wired into her brain: In the ancestral environment a rapid change in circumstances could mean imminent danger or a big survival opportunity. The limbic brain doesn’t trust your pre-frontal cortex (the conscious) to deal with it so pulls rank and drops into heuristic mode.

Heuristics are nothing more than pre-wired emotional responses on how to deal with something quickly. They come from the emotional brain and are combinations of responses based on previous similar experiences (the social emotions like, shame, guilt, jealousy etc) with some actually hard-wired into the brain’s source code (like fear, anger, lust etc ). When these heuristics are running then you’re also susceptible to influence, as you’re locking onto someone else’s frame as a scaffolding to bring you back to normality/stasis and the «emotional traffic highway» is now open for emotions coming in the opposite direction (from the other person).

Your frame as selector and alpha is incorporated into her own.

[ To the vast majority of girls «status» within their peer group (which used to be the tribe) is of considerable importance as it had to be kept a close eye on in the ancestral environment to maximise the potential of mating with the highest alpha male they could get. It had to be monitored at all times and like I said action taken to avoid any potential loss and seize on the opportunity for any potential improvement.]

With very hot girls status is even more important as being «top girl» was the genetic jackpot for their genes. These girls now pretty much have everything, the looks, the orbiters, the protectors, and all the other benefits which come from being an uber hottie. The one thing they have to work for is their status/value with other uber hotties in their group/tribe.

Lost at sea she now starts to do something she very rarely does: She starts qualifying herself to you and sabotaging her rival.

Step 3: The Lock In

Important If you start validating her now, then any potential attraction will disappear very quickly. Remember this as you will have an urge to do so.

The behaviour you drop into now is that of «amused mastery» with a heavy emphasis of skepticism. Cross your arms when she’s validating herself, but listen to the criteria she’s basing herself judged worth upon. See if you can find an adjective she seems keen on which you can use to preface the word «Confident». When you’ve identified the word then make sure to slightly nod when you hear it (more about this later, but it’s to do with what are called «trancewords».) The nod is a way of analogically marking it through body language so that its significance is processed unconsciously, as body language is decoded by the unconscious brain first and the conscious secondly, but only if it appears to be incongruous will the conscious boot up to give it «due process».

Keep a wry amused smile on your face, she will sense that you’re not taking the bait and most likely go some light kino on you to punctuate her emotional state and expect you to invest with some validation. Kino her back, but always in a pushing fashion and don’t look where you touch (it’s creepy). Because of her emotional state your kino won’t be processed at a conscious level as the cognitive buffer is filled with other concerns, but unconsciously it’s getting through to her attraction centres.

Step 4 The Lock Down The key now is to drop her out of her emotional state temporarily and then spike it back up again using a process known as «refractionation». Basically when someone comes out and then back into the same emotional state, the second time they go into it, it’s more powerful. It’s a method used by the «speed seduction» community to generate high levels of arousal in a woman, but in this case we’re just using it for a different emotional model to suit our strategy.

Uncross your arms with a sigh, relax and then change the subject to something mundane going on in the venue as if you’re just chatting to one of your buddies. Men do not do this to uber hotties as their usual remit is to try to impress them. She will think you’ve disqualified her (causing slight confusion) as a potential partner and up your ascribed value in her mind. Carry on the conversation for about a minute and then drop the line. «Actually you have three big advantages over your friend» (leverage girl).

[Credit for this goes once again to Mystery and was originally known as the «Three Things About You Technique». Its methodology was to tell a girl two things about herself attraction wise that she didn’t know, but not the third. The PUA could then either go sarge other girls or go to the washroom or bar knowing he had inoculated the girl from further approaches by other guys hanging around as she always wanted to find out the third.]

It uses a cognitive bias we all have known as the «Zeigernic effect» and is very effective [I can vouch for its impact as I’ve had girls come to a bar they knew I was going next, wait outside a wash room for me, and even been pulled out of a taxi to find out the elusive third thing.]

The Three Things: This time, however we’re going to use the «things» as vehicles for some pretty devious and cunning psychological deep mind influence.

When she asks what they are, use the ones below and make sure to preface the first with the words «The first one is». This is to create a language pattern known as an *»Ordinal».

An «Ordinal» is a presupposition that there will be a number of things. By using the word «first» you’re implying that there will be a second, third, etc. The second, third may not even exist, but the listener presupposes that they do as you used the word «first».

[ The woman already knows there will be three things, but in this case you’re using it a reinforcer to prevent cognitive drift ]

Then use the word «Because». «Because» is a statement as opposed to a question and various studies have discovered the word as a preface generates more influence from the speaker. This is because the laws of cause and effect are programmed into all higher animal brains, but by using the word at the beginning of our list (use it only for the first thing) and going through the list in this order, we are starting a process called *»State Titration» so each separate «thing» titrates into the next one, making the process seamless and generating *»cognitive fluency» to prevent her critical factor booting up.

[Count them off on your fingers as you do so. In this way you’re again using a body language cue to anchor them.]

1/ » The first thing is because….» Then a comment on her appearance, but not anything physical. It’s important that it’s something which you genuinely like as the very fact that you have spotted it means it will be something which she wore for that purpose. Something like her dress or shoes making her look «classy» or «sophisticated» as if these are essential criteria for you in a partner (if you DO have essential criteria then use those instead as it will help your congruence).

She will see this as an advantage she has over her fellow beauty leverage girl and mentally agree.

You have just started what’s known as a «Yes Set» (getting her mind into the house of yes) to ease the next two things through.

2/ A comment on how she’s a friendly girl and not standoffish. The reason for this is you’re «priming» the «friendly» behaviour mindset (by «half cocking» the relevant network of neurons» ) into her brain, so she will more likely to act friendly and less keen to start shit testing you. Because you’ve already got her brain into yes mode (the essence of the «yes set») from your first statement and you’re titrating emotional state, her critical factor (the pre-frontal cortex) usually lets the idea into her mind without much introspection. ( No need to use «because» or «The …….thing is», from now on as their work is done ).

3/ Now we use the most Machiavellian attraction trigger in existence…

The Amygdala Feedback Loop.

But first some background. You may have noticed I’m a big proponent of «embodied cognition». This is for good reason. It’s commonly reasoned that when the mind wants the body to do something, it sends a signal to cause the result it requires. This is true, but only half the story. When the body commits the action the mind requests, it sends a signal back to the brain to announce its new state. The brain analyses the return signal and tweaks its instructions in a feedback loop to fine-tune everything and achieve maximum efficiency.

However…if you consciously induce that state in yourself or someone else then the unconscious picks up the return signal and assumes that the signal is the current «state of play» of how things are, and sychronises itself to it, feeding back the new mental model to the body in an ever strengthening loop until the new state becomes the new reality.

There’s been a lot of research into this and the original model was proven by researchers who asked test volunteers to read jokes with and without a pencil held in their mouth. They discovered that the volunteers found the jokes funnier with the pencils then without them.

Why?

Holding the pencil in the mouth requires the face to use the «Zygomatic major muscle» to do so. This muscle is also the one which unconsciously triggers when we smile. The brain senses that the muscle is triggering and infers that activity is happening in the body which correlates to a happy/funny state. Instead of the feedback loop going «brain to body to brain to body….» it begins at the state of the «body» instead. The mind adopts the state of the body (happy) to avoid dissonance and the new state becomes the norm, but in this case… You find the jokes funnier.

So…we trigger a behaviour in the girl which correlates to her being attracted to someone.

WARNING

Sometimes however, this feedback loop runs out of control and can actually cause a panic attack. Calibrate her state closely at this time as any other emotions ongoing in her psyche can hitch a ride on the loop, and some girls can go really crazy when this happens. We’re running a pure attraction loop and nothing else here so be careful what you’re doing.

We count off our third finger, look her in the eye, pause, and then say……

«The third thing is you make lots of very confident eye contact».

Why? Because very attractive girls are very adept at avoiding eye contact with random guys who constantly try to make it with them. If they didn’t, then they would have no end of loser types she has no interest in approaching her and wasting her time.

The only guys she *does make eye contact with, are guys she is interested in or attracted to. You’ve induced a state of attraction in her as she will now adopt that behaviour with you. The body is saying to the brain «I’m making a great deal of eye contact with this guy» so her mind says «Ok that must mean I am attracted to him, so make more of the same» and the feedback loop continues.

The reasons she adopts the behaviour are.

1/ She’s in validation mode with you as her sexual rival is stealing her thunder; she wants it back and if eye contact is an ace up her sleeve, then so be it.

2/ She’s in the final stage of a «yes set».

3/ Do you remember the bit about «trancewords» earlier? Trancewords are words (usually adjectives) based on a person’s sense of values. These values are an actual part of someones identity at their most powerful. When she’s stating her case for being more attractive/desirable than her rival she’s using what she considers her main advantages over her.

They could be: «I’m more passionate», «classy», «sophisticated», «deep», «seductive» etc.

So the final push to get this behaviour through to her limbic brain is to utilise a value which has already been «preapproved» by her unconscious as being important to her. This is a technique known as «tailgating». You take a value very close to another person’s belief model, link it to the value/behaviour you wish to induce and the very association of the latter to the former stamps the signal approved for access to limbic brain to the package as a whole. Into her mind it goes to be unwrapped back into its two separate values once it’s arrives.

Machiavellian? Totally. Manipulative? Absolutely.

So….For the final push… with a slight nod (our earlier state anchor) we say…

«You make very confident (insert trance word here) eye contact».

Step 5: Welcome To My Frame

This stage is the stage to drop her totally out of her frame and into yours. You invite her into your territory. One of the remits of an alpha male in the entire animal kingdom is that they have their own territory. In this case, it would either be where you were originally stood if you’re on your own, or back to your wingmen/wingman if you’re in a group. By doing so you’re demonstrating territorial, attraction generating cues at the very deepest parts of her limbic mind. That’s the place (amygdala) where the values «Fight, Feed, Fuck» reside.

This is deep core and the place you want to be.

Step 6: How The World Is

If you’re on your own, then project the emotional behaviour and frame that’s she’s a plate that you’re very fond of (mentally not verbally) and run with that, with the odd unpredictable intercession (this refractionates but also loads up her cognitive buffer to keep the unconscious highways clear).

If you’re with your buddies then brief them before the approach on what to do when you bring the girl over. A good first thing for one of them to say is.

«Are we staying or are we going?»

By doing this you indicate to her that you’re the leader of your group (the alpha) but also imply a «scarcity» mindset in her so she will infer that you may actually be leaving (after all this chemistry!) and make her invest more.

You of course reply…

«I haven’t decided yet»

The mindset your group should now operate on, is as if she’s a girlfriend you’ve been dating a while, but they’ve just met her. The group frame that this is the reality in question will permeate unconsciously and eliminate any residual frame she has (people drop into the strongest frame they’re interacting with 95% of the time).

No doubt the buddies will be looking for a piece of the action too, in which case ask her a female opinion on something then get her to invite one of her friends over to back her up. Now her group is splitting, some of your guys can go over and chat to the remaining ones. Top R cluster girl is your best bet here for ease of entry.

After that is up to you, but the goal you want is to separate and isolate all the girls into groups of two (two girls-two wingmen) then run with it, with the end goal of bouncing in pairs to the next venue, but keep your frame tight at all times.

End Note

The most important thing about this method is YOU. In all human interactions, people send out what could be called «reality pings» like a submarine’s sonar. These «pings» detect the frame of an ongoing interaction and who’s going to drop into whose frame. The pings happen on an unconscious level and give an emotional valence to the frame at hand. Most people know about body language communication at a meta level, but below that there are tiny nuances in behaviour and physiology called «BMIRs». This stands for *Behavioural Manifestations Of Internal Representations».

BMIR’s are impossible to consciously fake and also very difficult consciously to detect. They just give us a gut feeling about someone (although the American secret service does train its agents using some BMIRs called «Facial Action Cues» [Micro gestures of the face which last only 300 milliseconds] developed by a guy called Paul Ekman so it can be done.

Alas we don’t have access to this level of training but there is a fast track method.

Genuinely believing your TRP frame and knowing 100% that the method will work. When you do that your BMIRs are a 100% reflections of your intentions and mental frame. The woman gets the «feelz» about you on an unconscious level. Her «reality pings» are mapping your psyche and getting the thumbs up (it’s based on the «limbic resonance» I covered earlier). Hypnotists utilise the concept by what’s called «going first». They adopt the emotion they wish their subject to have, the subject picks up the BMIRs of the emotion, their mirror neurons inject it into their own «global-workspace» and they feel the emotion themselves.

Remember though: In field is chaos at the best of times with people coming in and out of set and a great deal of distractions (Mobile phones!) but the greater the integrity of your frame (your force field) the less effect these things will have.

TL;DR Look up the bit about foot pointing. It’s the matrix unveiled of attraction intentions.

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Algunos ejemplos de seducción para aplicar ya mismo

«hola»

… y apagá tu cabeza, imagina que te la esta chupando y hablá.

¡Dominá la logística!

  • Conoce los lugares copados de comida (Pizza, café, tacos, etc)
  • Conoce los parques o lugares donde puedas caminar y pasear después de comer

¡Siempre avanzá! Así debería verse la progresión de la noche.

  • Te acercaste
  • La calentaste (polariza)
  • Conseguiste numero / Próxima salida
  • Andate de ahí

Todo el proceso debería tomar menos de 5 minutos. Si no, es muy muy probable que la estés cagando.

Decir «hola» toma cero esfuerzo, y empezar la charla es el 99% del problema. PROBLEMA RESUELTO. (ademas, las «frases» de levante son una pedorreada)

Probablemente puedas desarmar mi argumento y decir algo como que si no sos lindo/alto/dotado/etc no sirve de nada, que se yo. Esa misma es la razón por la que estas acá, no? Es la razón por la que estas leyendo este articulo, no?. El problema es que pensás demasiado. Vos, yo, todos somos terribles cuando la pensamos demasiado. Por suerte ahora durante el levante pienso tan poco que apenas puedo acordarme de la interacción y cuando intento contársela a algún amigo termino sonando como un mogólico que se trata de levantar un árbol.

Me acerco 5 veces al día y es genial. Es natural, es humano y es algo importante para mi. Me siento un hombre seguro y saludable, si me rechaza no es por mi, no es mi culpa y le agradezco que no me haya hecho perder el tiempo. No hay chances de que sin hacer nada un día te despiertes y mágicamente seas bueno seduciendo, es como los músculos, los tenes que entrenar. Siempre tené en mente que en 50 años vas a estar muerto así que dejá de ser un cagón.

Las bases de la seducción de día #01

Hace tiempo cuando estudiaba técnicas de Chamullo me encontré con un artículo llamado «La estrategia del impacto sorpresivo».

En resumen es simplemente saltearte toda la demás boludez de levante y en cuanto ella empiece a dar indicaciones de interés (IDI) simplemente sugerí de ir a su casa o la tuya.

Ya te digo que esto funciona re bien. La primera mesera HB8 que me gané fue gracias a que le sugerí ir a su casa a dormir la resaca en cuanto dijo algo de que sea cuidadoso de no emborracharme mucho.

Por supuesto que la respuesta fue «No se si esa es una buena idea», y eso me dijo a mi que no le disgustaba tanto la idea. No dije mas nada. Esta parte es la mas importante. Simplemente me paré ahí mirándola mientras ella procesaba la idea. Y entonces dijo «no vamos a hacer nada eh».

Fuimos a su casa y corrió a la pieza, volvió con una remera y bombachita. Ni me tuve que esforzar. Básicamente la mina se me tiró encima y empezó a darme. Ja.

Todas y cada una de las chicas que alguna vez me dijeron «no vamos a hacer nada eh» estaba tanto caliente como equivocada.

El «Impacto Sorpresivo» (Shock and Awe) es:

Vos: «¿Que vas a hacer después?»
Ella: «No se…»
Vos: «Venís a mi casa?»
Vos: Callate la boca boludo y trata de parecer lo mas seguro y confianzudo posible.
Ella: Básicamente trata de decidir si sos un asesino serial o no, así que no hay espacio para verse raro ni nervioso ni enfermito.

Supuestamente funciona el 25% de las veces porque requiere unos huevos enormes. Si sabes ingles, buscá «Bristol Lair» y «Shock and Awe»

Cómo enfrentas el «¿En serio te pensás que me voy a ir a casa con el primer tipo que me lo pide?» O el «¿Le decís eso a todas las minas?

Primera pregunta: «No veo a nadie mas preguntando (sonrisa socarrona)»
Segunda pregunta: «Solo a las lindas (sonrisa socarrona)»

Controlá el relato

El hecho de que alguien te haya hecho una pregunta no quiere decir que tengas que responderla.

No vamos a hacer nada hoy

Cuando una mina te dice

«mirá que hoy no va a pasar nada»

Quiere decir: «Ya se me paso por la cabeza la idea de hacerlo con vos y ahora que ya tengo tu pene en mi mente probablemente terminemos haciéndolo, pero tengo que aparentar de que no lo pensé así no parezco muy fácil… yyyyyy ya estamos cogiendo«.

Empezar con una pregunta de opinión es útil para aprender ‘seducción’

Es muy útil al principio por ejemplo «¿Por que pensás que los perros se chupan el pito?»

Pero una vez que ya te sentís mas cómodo, te vas a ir dando cuenta de que no importa lo que digas, te podes levantar una mina con empezar diciéndole algo tan simple como «¿hola, que tal?»

¡No se que decir!

Yo: «Hola»
Ella: «Hola
…..
Ehm… necesitabas algo?»
Yo: «Eh…. no se que mas decir, pero uf que labios carnosos que tenes! Se me esta parando de imaginar lo que podes hacer con eso»
Ella: «Voy a llamar a la policía»
Yo: «Mierda se ve que sigo pensando demasiado»

Respuesta

Ahi es donde la estas cagando. A las minas les chupa un huevo de lo que hables. Las mujeres no tienen conversaciones ni procesan las cosas como los hombres. Muchas veces simplemente hablan porque les gusta hablar, todo el aspecto de ser social, en serio, no hay nada mas allá que eso.

¿Me callo o hablo?

El silencio es bueno, callate

¿Que se supone que haga? ¿Me callo o hablo para levantarmela? ¡Demasiada información contradictoria!

¿Alguna vez trabajaste en ventas?

Te muestro dos ejemplos

Ejemplo 1:

Ofreces tu propuesta, y te callas la boca.
Esperas, porque le toca responder a la otra parte.
Pero antes de que responda, es común que haya un pequeño período de un silencio incómodo.
(es porque la otra parte esta buscando la mejor respuesta/estrategia a tu propuesta)

No podes controlar como responden, pero podes controlar no aparecer desesperado, si te callas la boca apareces como seguro de tu propuesta. Así que acordate – se puede expresar seguridad y confianza utilizando el silencio, en el escenario apropiado.

Pero, imaginate el contraste con el

Ejemplo 2:

Ofreces tu propuesta.
Instantáneamente después, en lugar de callarte y ser paciente…
Le saltas a la yugular a la otra persona ofreciéndole razones por las cuales debería «comprar» lo que ofreciste, tratando de justificar tu proposición.

¿Cual parece desesperada, ejemplo 1 o 2?

Si nunca fuiste vendedor, y si la vida te lo permite, trata de conseguir algo por unos meses. Te va a abrir los ojos y vas a aprender un montón de habilidades sociales (manejo social, manipulación, como abrir a las personas, como cerrar tratos, como encauzar conversaciones hacia el objetivo que tengas en mente, etc).

Algo mas que el silencio hace y que es muy importante: El silencio le da gravedad a tus palabras.

Si decís menos palabras que los demás en una conversación, las palabras que digas se perciben como de mayor importancia, con mayor significancia, mas poderosas, siempre asumiendo que vos y la otra persona son pares en cuanto a estatus social. El tema es que al decir menos palabras, lo que decís recibe mas atención y peso y se va a terminar percibiendo como de mayor calidad.

Cuanto menos hablas, mas poderosas van a ser tus palabras, simplemente por haber menos de ellas.

Cuanto menos cosas hay, mas atención se le puede prestar a cada una – es pura teoría del diseño. Un grupo grande de boludeces – por ejemplo cervezas en un menú – si un bar tuviera 80 cervezas en el menú, sería una sobrecarga lease Sobrecarga de elecciones, también conocido como la paradoja del a elección. No vas ni a ver ni a recordar a la mayoría de ellas. Pero, si solo hay 4 cervezas – ahora le podes dar a cada una mas atención individual, y sopesar el peso de la decisión que te toca hacer. El desorden va totalmente en contra de la atención – solo genera distracción. El silencio «reduce el desorden» en el sentido de que como estas hablando y diciendo menos cosas, lo que decís recibe mas atención.

Vivimos en una economía de la atención

Nos bombardean a diario con publicidades, así que las apagamos mentalmente. Es un simple ejemplo de atención selectiva.

Por ejemplo las aulas muy decoradas se sabe que suelen distraer a los estudiantes (buscalo). Vemos este efecto por todas partes, es una parte de nuestra naturaleza.

Cuanto menos hay de una cosa, más atención recibe cada unidad individual de esa cosa.

Cuanto más hay de una cosa, menos atención recibe cada unidad individual de esta.

Bastante lógico, ¿No es cierto?

El silencio esta bien una vez que ya generaste una conexión. Incluso esta bien usarlo desde temprano siempre que haya una parte de la charla donde ella pueda responder naturalmente (ej. si le ofreces tu opinión sobre algo, una pausa suele ser una señal para que ella participe y responda). Pero si es justo al mismo inicio – sin conexión, sin siquiera un tema de conversación en la mesa – entonces ahí es donde necesitas tirar algo de charla.

¿De que hablo entonces?

Y sobre la pregunta de qué es ese «algo«, suelo elegir temas mundanos de entrada (si te la sigue con un tema mundano es una buena señal de que le interesas vos mas que cualquier tema súper interesante o súper divertido que puedas elucubrar). Después de un rato de charla mundana pregunta hace cuanto esta en la ciudad, o si viene seguido a esa zona de salidas, que partes de la ciudad conoce, y para entonces ya estas hablando de bares, restaurantes, parques, teatros, etc. Y ahí es muy muy fácil llevarla a un «vayamos a conocer _____ el Jueves».

Acordate:

  1. Boludeces mundanas (ej. el tiempo, posta)
  2. Hace cuanto vivís por acá / Venís mucho a este lugar
  3. Que partes de la ciudad conoces
  4. Sugerí salir a algún lugar que no conozca / que le guste

Simplificalo tanto como puedas.

Antes de ponerte loco con este articulo, recordá que si tu físico es una mierda, tu sentido del a moda es un desastre y si no tenes un mínimo cuidado en tu cabello / barba, no importa lo que hagas, al menos en cuanto a levantarte minas por encima del HB4.

¿Polarizar? ¿De qué hablas?

¿Que quiere decir eso? ¿Quiere decir que después de demostrar valor onda confianza, humor, etc, tenes que decirle algo sexual para ver su reacción?

Quiere decir esto:

Demostrá valor – Mostrá un buen relato, acercate y saludala

Entabla Contacto Físico – Kino, mano en los hombros, agarrale la mano, abrazala.

Alimenta Dependencia – Se su guía, su organizador de la noche, pero acordate es TU show, no el de ella.

Negala Emocionalmente – No demuestres debilidad, puede llorar en los hombros de un amigo, NO en los tuyos.

Ilusionala – Deja pistas de futuras mejoras en al relación, por ejemplo una revista de matrimonio tirada por ahí. Nunca seas directo, dejá que sea solo cosas de su imaginación.

Separa las cosas – Nunca te cases, esa es onda la regla #1 de todas.

(en ingles se conoce como método DENNIS)

Soy un novato completo del Gimnasio, por donde empiezo?

Esta pregunta me la hacen lo suficientemente seguido como para que termine escribiendo una entrada especializada sobre el tema.

El gimnasio es algo que tenes que encarar como si lo fueras a hacer toda tu vida, sino ni te calientes en empezar. Si pensás que va a ser complicado hacerlo de viejo, tenes que tener en cuenta que una vez que llegas a un nivel aceptable, físicamente, solo es necesario mantener el físico, y eso requiere de menos esfuerzo todavía!

¿Qué esperar del gimnasio en cuanto a progreso?

Según mi experiencia personal, puede variar por cada persona, pero hay ciertos hitos que parecen tener alguna constancia.

Esto es solo válido si tenes constancia, constancia quiere decir faltar como máximo 1 dia al mes durante ese tiempo, cada vez que faltas al gimnasio, perdés 1 semana de esfuerzo, o más.

Vas a notar un cambio físico fuerte en los primeros 2/3 meses de constancia en el ejercicio. La segunda vez que vas a notarte diferente va a ser luego de un año, y la tercera, luego de 3 años.

¿Por dónde empiezo?

Para un novato absoluto lo mejor es empezar la rutina del 5×5, tené en cuenta que esta rutina va en contra de todo lo que vos pensás que sabes del ejercicio y el gimnasio, va en contra de todo lo que probablemente sepan los profesores, así que, o la haces e ignoras lo que te digan, o no la hagas. Te puedo decir que conozco mas de uno que decidió ignorar esta rutina y empezó con la típica rutina de 1 hora de gimnasio con bicicleta, mancuernas, máquinas… cero progreso después de dos meses. Una vez que decidieron probar esta rutina, en dos meses había una diferencia importante en su físico.

La rutina de 5×5 es simple, es fácil, es corta. Es tan corta el principio que parece que no estás haciendo nada, no te preocupes, para cuando llegues a mover la barra mas tu peso, los tiempos de descanso entre serie y serie se van a ir casi todos a 3/5 minutos) y ahí esta rutina que empezaste haciendo en 20 minutos no la terminas antes de los 90.

Consejos para hacer esta rutina, la primer semana que vas, preguntá todos los días al profesor, o algún otro que te animes a preguntarle, y pediles que te miren que estés haciendo bien los movimientos, lo mejor es leerse el libro del autor de la rutina, es muy completo y tiene muchos consejos muy claros.

La segunda vez que tenes que revisar que estés haciendo bien las cosas es cuando ya tenes un poco de peso encima, alrededor de los 30 kilos para cada ejercicio (bueno quizá con peso muerto a los 60), tené en cuenta que cada uno de los 5 ejercicios se mueven a diferente velocidad en cuanto a crecimiento de peso, en un momento podes estar moviendo 120 kilos de peso muerto y 50 de press de hombro, eso es normal.

¿Por qué es tan buena?

Porque se enfoca en pocos ejercicios, pocas repeticiones, y te da fuerza, mucha fuerza. Con esa misma fuerza después haces 12 repeticiones y en dos meses sos hulk.

Bajate la aplicación que es muy buena.

¿Cuándo la cambio?

Cuando vos sientas que ya no la necesitas.

La respuesta larga, mantenete en 5×5 por lo menos hasta que tanto remo, banco plano y sentadillas hayan superado tu peso, o seguí esta tabla y dejá la rutina cuando pases a ser un gimnasta intermedio.

¿Qué hago después?

El primer cambio debería ser por una 3×5, probablemente a los 9 meses, por un tema de tiempo.

Personalmente yo cambié a una rutina de alta intensidad, que es bastante corta pero me esta resultando.

¿Otros consejos?

Comé bien, lo que mas resultado te va a dar varia de persona en persona, pero, eliminar el alcohol, las gaseosas, jugos, harinas y azucares son efectivo para todos.

Si querés aprender más sobre musculación, acá tenes un resumen muy completo.

Por último, hay mucho material en este mismo sitio.

¡Suerte!

Lo único que les debes a las mujeres es una buena cojida

Introduction by Bancroft (kdunning)

Most guys naturally know to always act non-weird, non-creepy, and non-needy when meeting a new male friend.

Here’s the standard line non-spectrum guys take when meeting a new random male acquaintance:

  • Shake their hand
  • Talk about normal guy things to find middle ground
  • Keep it casual and have a good time
  • Hang out if it makes sense, if not, then don’t try to force anything

And for contrast, below is the standard list of things non-spectrum guys KNOW TO AVOID when meeting a new random male acquaintance:

  • Share random intimate personal details (your weird habits you do when no one is looking, your insecurities)
  • Ask him random serious personal questions (his ex’s, his own insecurities, his feelings toward you at the time)
  • Flower him with compliments and praise like a suckup
  • Ask to do favors and “nice” things to make him happy
  • Try to integrate themselves in his life immediately like they’ve known each other for 10 years

This makes sense because after all, you just met the fucking guy.

You’re not trying to do anything other than meet and greet him. You’re surely not trying to be a best friend. That’s weird, needy, and creepy.

And if you’re reading this, I surely hope you’re not trying to get in his pants. If so, you’re a Confused Cuck in the Closet [CCC] and you’re in the wrong subreddit. We talk about dick in vaginas here in the main sub, not dicks in hands (that’s askTRP).

The problem, though, is when these same guys talk to women.

That’s when they fuck everything up.

Most guys become a Big Blue Beta Bitch when dealing with women

Despite most guys already knowing to avoid acting like the cast of Big Bang Theory when they interact with men, as soon as they try to get their dick wet, they throw all Red logic out the door and crumble into a Big Blue Beta Bitch [BBBB].

What does a Big Blue Beta Bitch [BBBB] do?

They treat the woman like a best guy friend. They act weird, needy, and creepy.

Here’s what they do:

  • They treat her nicer than she treats them
  • They immediately emotionally invest in the future of this girl because they care about her wellbeing and dream about how they’d feel in a relationship with her
  • They answer all her personal questions in full honesty so she can get to know him
  • They openly share their entire backstory and explain who they are so she can trust him
  • They physically accommodate her by driving her, taking her out, paying for her
  • They listen and comfort her when she shares her “life problems”
  • They open more lines of communication than she reciprocates or desires
  • They plan a million hangout sessions instead of giving her space (to go fuck other guys)

Doing all of the above is the fastest way to turn your dick into a crusty mangina that no one—not even that SuperGayGuy from Glee—would want to fuck.

So don’t be the BBBB.

I’ll hate you.

So will all the women you want to fuck.

But Chad won’t.

Bancroft knows the secret to destroying your BBBB

Now to all you strong able bodied (you guys lift, right?) Terpers of the TRP who want to keep their Big Blue Beta Bitch tendencies in check, Bancroft is here to help you out—and also teach you how to keep your Deep Emotional Feelings [DEF] for your new found hottie at bay.

And like all things Bancroft, I’ll make it super simple for you all.

Because I’ve excelled at the masculine discipline of “guy logic”— something Betas love to forget when they meet a new eligible set of tits and ass—you’ll have the benefit of learning all my strategies quicker than you can say “OP is a misogynist and I think he fucking loves it”.

So let’s begin.

Premise 1: Everything an average Red guy does to fuck a woman

For everyone who doesn’t take into account the work men put towards getting laid, Bancroft’s journey across the lands have provided excellent first hand knowledge on this topic:

  1. Lifted, eaten, and maintained a healthy physical and mental state to be able to fuck women
  2. Read, studied, and analyzed Red literature and game tactics to be able to fuck women
  3. Broke through his inner demons and anxieties and approached a woman
  4. Applied game
  5. Led conversation
  6. Didn’t do anything awkward
  7. Got her number
  8. Contacted her
  9. Applied text game
  10. Kept his BBBB tendencies in check and didn’t bombard her with ooey gooey texts about his feelings or about “her day”
  11. Asked her out because like all of us, he just wants to fuck her first and get to know her later
  12. Had the balls to tell her to dress sexy because like us, it’s a lot easier to fuck when she’s already wearing slutty clothes
  13. Leading up to the date, continued to lift, eat, and maintain a healthy physical and mental state so he can perform
  14. Kept his BBBB tendencies in check and didn’t bombard her with ooey gooey texts about his feelings or “how much fun she’ll have on the date”
  15. Took a shower, put on good clothes, and showed up
  16. Applied game
  17. Led conversation
  18. Listened to all her bullshit about how hard her life is, her evil co-workers, and passed all her pathetic shit tests
  19. Kept his BBBB tendencies in check and didn’t bombard her with ooey gooey conversation about his feelings or “how much he likes her”
  20. Had the balls to sexually escalate by focusing on the vagina, not the woman
  21. Had the balls to change logistics to a bed and took her to said bed
  22. Had the balls and maneuvers to break through any last minute resistance, received her full consent (of course!), and succeed in fucking her
  23. Kept his BBBB tendencies in check and didn’t bombard her with ooey gooey post-sex conversation about his feelings or how “special she is”
  24. If he let her stay overnight, he promptly fucked her in the morning even harder than the first time
  25. If not, he was man enough to kick her out so he can continue his evening without a feminine distraction and get some solid sleep without hair in his face

Yes my brothers, this is a long list.

That’s my point.

You’ll understand why I listed everything out in a minute.

And some of you may say I’m being pedantic here but really I’m not.

These are things WE ALL subconsciously do to successfully fuck women. True, the more experienced you are, the less you think about these items, but you’re still performing them.

To be a man is to perform. That’s a primary facet that separates us from the tight, wet holes we wanna fuck: masculine performance.

Now that you’ve seen how much work the average Red guy puts in to get his dick wet, I’ll lay out what the average woman does to get fucked.

And boys, it’s one hell of a list, so I hope you’re ready.

Premise 2: Everything an average woman does to fuck a guy

Bancroft’s journey across the lands also gave him the special privilege of discovering what the average woman must suffer and endure to land a potential suitor (read: good enough cock to fuck while not blacked out).

And guys, I’ll be honest here, it’s pretty fucking stressful:

  1. Own a cell phone that operates
  2. Take a shower, put on cute clothes, and show up
  3. Open her legs (and keep her mouth shut unless you need to use it for your dick)

There you have it.

I’m not saying it’s easier to be a woman than a man, that’s not my point (hell, that’s not even a fair debate). I’m just saying women HAVE TO DO LESS to get laid than men (again, old news).

And it’s exactly because they put in SO LITTLE EFFORT compared to you that they don’t deserve any preferential treatment like your good friends.

They deserve nothing more than a healthy dose of your dick (with consent of course!)—or if you don’t like her, the door.

Bancroft’s Logical Inference: She’s done absolutely nothing for you so far

Guys, it’s natural for you to start getting all Blue and shit when you encounter a hottie. Men are the true romantics. I get it.

But logically look at all the work and effort you put in to get laid versus what the woman does.

You’ll see it’s quite lopsided for the average guy.

You did 25 things to get her to fuck you. She did 3 things, 4 tops if you count her not talking.

Really, she didn’t do anything other than charge her cell phone, not get lost showing up, and open her legs at the precisely correct moment.

And that’s exactly why you SHOULD NEVER FEEL OBLIGATED TO TREAT HER LIKE A FRIEND.

She has done nothing to earn a spot in your friends list. Your guy friends put in a lot more effort. While you don’t get to fuck them (I hope not), the reason why you treat them as such is because they put in actual effort and work to be your friend.

And women you just met NEVER put that effort in.

So don’t treat them like they did.

Destroy your BBBB by reminding yourself everything she hasn’t done for you

And that’s exactly what you need to remind yourself when you start having BBBB tendencies.

Just logically walk yourself through whether this woman deserves the care, emotional investment, and noble deference your romantic BBBB wants to provide for her.

That’s right—she doesn’t.

The only thing she’s done so far is looked sexy and showed up.

So the only thing you should feel inclined to pay her back is what she showed up for: A civil, proper, and good old classy fucking—with her full verbal and written consent (of course!)

Bancroft’s Disclaimer for Those with Low Reading Comprehension

All throughout this piece I’m advocating men to critically think about what they should logically offer to a woman they just met.

And I’ll clarify, this is for women they just met.

Most of the time, it’s absolutely fucking nothing.

This doesn’t, however, mean I’m advocating literally just fucking the woman, leaving her gimp from your dick, and showing her the door. That’s pretty funny (she’ll always text first, trust me) but also not the best way to continue fucking the girl. And I’m sure it also hurts their “feelings” (Bancroft understands that just like Betas, women have feelings too).

I actually believe in sharing ALL your amazing personality traits to continue fucking women. Sometimes that means being nice, sometimes mean, sometimes mysterious, sometimes very deep and open about your life. And sometimes it means just literally being your awesome self.

Again, I’m NOT saying to NEVER be an actual human being with a personality. These are tools you need to eventually develop. We’re not complete psychopaths at TRP, right? At least not all the time.

I’m just saying that until the woman has proven herself otherwise, you should never over extend your hand and play face up.

Again, you just met her. Just like how you don’t creep out a new male friend, you don’t need to treat her like something she most certainly is not: royalty.

If you do, then I hope it’s because it’ll help you fuck, not because you genuinely want to please her.

The last thing women need (and the human race) is a man that genuinely wants to please women more than himself.

She needs a cool aloof dick to ride—not a Humble Blue Soul [HBS] to carry the excruciating painful weight of all two or three of her “life problems”.

Corollary 1: You don’t owe her any emotional investment yet (or ever)

You just met this bitch, do you even know who she is?

You just met this bitch, do you even know if she likes you or is just using your dick for a cheap ride?

Take all that dreamy Blue and Beta imaginative bullshit you fantasize about as you text her at night and shove it right back into your hidden little box of romantic memories (yes, I know every guy, even you, still has one).

You know so little of who she is (it’s probably not much more when you actually find out) that it doesn’t make sense for you to invest in her her feelings, want to take care for her, and dream about a Happily Ever After.

If you do, you’re just a BBBB and you should go read purplepilldebate so you can play with other like minded sexually frustrated maginas.

Corollary 2: You don’t owe her any explanation of your personal details and backstory yet (or ever)

You just met this bitch, you don’t have to tell her anything about your personal life.

How much information has she given you? How much of it is even interesting?** Thought so.**

Women love mystery and never want full disclosure. So by keeping your mouth shut and your feelings to yourself, you’re actually making her wetter.

When women know everything about you, she can categorize your personality with all the other fuck buddies she has in her phone. As soon as she has you figured out, her pussy dries up because hypergamy now realizes she’s rode that dick before.

Women are always looking for ways to feed their insatious Penis Novelty [PN].

“I want to wake up every morning WITHOUT a cool, mysterious, alpha guy to think and dream about”

Said no woman ever.

Corollary 3: You don’t owe her physical accommodation or intimate comfort yet (or ever)

Remember, she just showed up, gave you full consent (of course!), and opened her legs. If anything, she should be THANKING you for making her night.

Think about it: You approached her, you led conversation, you made first text contact, you planned the date, you gave her a bed, you asked for consent (of course!), and most importantly you gave her the D.

In hindsight, you were the perfect gentleman.

And this means since you’ve already done your job and put MORE than enough effort in already, that you don’t owe her anything extra.

You don’t owe her a ride home, breakfast in the morning, extra non-fucking spoon time so she can rest her head on your chest and touch your face, or if you’re as cruel as Bancroft: a towel for the shower.

Now again, I’m NOT saying you should never accommodate your women. These NiceGuy tools are necessary to continue fucking women. You’ll need to use them eventually.

But for women you just first met and fucked, you definitely don’t OWE them these.

So reward if you want to.

But Bancroft probably wouldn’t.

And neither should you.

Corollary 4: You don’t owe her additional text conversation, a real date, or anything beyond setting up the second fuck

You just met this bitch, you don’t need to text her to see how she’s doing.

Believe me, Beta Billy the Blue and her two ex’s are already texting her asking how her “girls night out” went. There’s plenty of other Blue Pilled Horny Mother Fuckers [BPHMF] on speed dial to pay attention to every bit of her amazing and unique lackluster personality.

You just met this bitch, why would you want to take her on a fancy date?

Remember, she just showed up and opened her legs. Do you repay a generic personality-free dirty slut by taking her out on a Beta Wonderfilled Dinner [BWD]? Fuck no.

“When sluts be hungry, they need the D, not a god damn filet mignon” – Bancroft

Unless she already paid it forward by taking you out on that first date, YOU DON’T OWE HER JACK SHIT. Even then, I’d never reciprocate her efforts equally, otherwise known as the Fifth Commandment of Poon from Original Roissy.

And you already guessed it: The only thing you truly owe her is letting her know when and where Magical Fuck Numero Dos is going down.

So what does Bancroft recommend you think about after you fuck her?

Now I’ve spent a lot of time telling you angry Terpers what NOT to do and say to a girl you just met.

I know how hard it is to practice a new mindset of negation because we’re so used to just blindly following advice on WHAT TO DO.

I understand your guys’ need for direct actionable advice.

Something a retard can follow and not mess up.

Something a guy who lifts, reads, and approaches can follow and not mess up.

So lucky for you, I’ll let you in on my secret. I’ll tell you exactly what I think about after I just met a girl and we fuck.

This is the best way to keep that BBBB buried deep and at bay. It works every time.

I always ask myself these two simple questions:

  1. Did I enjoy the sex enough to want to fuck her again?
  2. If so, do I think she’ll come over to my place to fuck me again (with her consent!) instead of me having to take a shower, put on clothes, and go out on a date?

That’s it. Nothing more. Nothing less.

And you, dearest Red of Readers, I recommend start doing the same.


Follow me on TRP.Red @ Bancroft

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