«Para ella solo sos un juguete; te va a convertir en rey para luego incendiar tu trono» – Anónimo
2.) Caracterización de la Psicópata Femenina
3.) Metodologia Interpersonal de la Mujer Psicopata
4.) Las Mujeres Psicopatas y el Sexo
5.) En Resumen
6.) Lectura Relevante
Las mujeres de la Tríada Obscura son mujeres que poseen un trastorno de empatía cero negativo; un «desorden de empatía cero negativo» es un termino acuñado por el investigador de autismo Simon Baron-Cohen de la Universidad de Cambridge. Significa: «un faltante de empatia afctiva» (la habilidad de sentir lo que otro siente de la manera que lo sienten, ej: tristeza) combinado con un faltante de procupacion moral por el bienestar de los demas. Ambas cosas deben estar presentes para constituir el desorden de empatía cero negativo, caso contrario terminamos con una diferente clasificación del trastorno de empatia, por ejemplo el autismo.
El trastorno de empatía cero negativo incluye predominantemente a narcisistas y psicopatas, asi tambien como casos mas límite en un menor nivel aunque de forma significativa. Excluye a aquellos en el espectro autista que poseen deficiencias empaticas, pero que tipicamente no son ni Maquiavelicos ni moralmente negativos. Este articulo se basa en una mujer a la que estimo es del tipo P (psicopata) o, si usamos un termino clinico, una mujer con un trastorno antisocial de la personalidad (TPA).
Es prudente para el tipo comun tratar con este grupo colectivo de «psicopatas» como iguales, ya que todos se comportan tan astuta y despiadadamente como «una verdadera psicopata» ya sea que tienen TPA o no.
En este artículo debato sobre la psicopata femenina, o como coloquialmente nos referimos entre un amigo y yo, «la hija de Lucifer». El termino lo elegimos para describir la naturaleza fría y retorcida de la mujer tríada obscura; la eleccion del termino religioso se utiliza para enfatizar la peligrosidad de tales mujeres.
2.) Caracterización de la Psicópata Femenina
Las mujeres psicopatas son increiblemente calculdoras, al igual que su contraparte masculina, tienden hacia las acciones inmorales basandose en la amoralidad del pensamiento poco convencional. Son increiblemente oportunistas e indiferentes hacia los demas, a la vez que son competentes en simular sentimientos con el solo proposito de la disimulacion. Su pensamiento es solipsista y a la vez pragmático, su percepcion de los demas se puede resumir como: «que hace esta persona por mi, si no hace nada, que podría hacer por mi y como puedo manipularlo para que lo haga?»
Las mujeres con un trastorno empatico del tipo P son las que yo considero la crème de la crème, el epitome por excelencia de la psicopatia femenina. Uns sadista al maximo de sus funciones con un muy alto CI (Coeficiente Intelectual), no la tipica histerica desafortunada que se asocia en general con la psicopatia femenina. No, esta mujer es un super depredador que se adorna solo casualmente con ropas de oveja cuando tal cosa le parezca que es la estrategia optima. Es una mujer que le da vueltas a los hombres, poniendosela dificil incluso a los hombres P.
These are women of incredible psychological prowess who utilise the power of the victim in all its perverse and incredible might to amass hordes of allies who’ll put themselves on the line so that she need not. Like their narcissistic counterparts, for better or worse they excel at creating a cult of personality. Think of Trump, only female, about 25 and as equally mind-violating in her use of “straight forward honesty.” Her honesty being more of the tactical, brutal and shit testing kind, deliberate and aggressive in its nature rather than clumsily inappropriate. Her pertinence but a weapon dressed in the clothing of honesty, something flaunted as virtue when it is quite the contrary.
To such a woman, there is no sanctity in human life, for an inability to pair bond lends to itself to a most unthinkable and effortless degree of objectifying dehumanisation. She uses people like consumptive items (a can of drink, a pack of gum) and once they carry out the functions imagined for them, they are disposed of. If she finds another (new) use for them, the cycle will repeat. If she cannot, she’s gone. A small frail psychopathic woman need not lift a weight nor a finger, for if her psychopathy is accompanied by physical beauty, she has all the power necessary to command those around her. Type P women are social predators drawn to those in positions of power, their sole aim to co-opt influence.
Much like their male counterparts, female psychopaths possess a psychological plurality in who they decide to associate with. They are attracted to people who fall on the extremes of personality, not the average. For example, type P women are fond of the weak and naive. They love to make others instruments of their will, and the cognitively weak represent easy pickings for an intraspecies predator. Like any predator, whilst a battery of easy pickings is always necessary for hard times, the hunt is its own sport, a guilty pleasure for the bored psychopath. As such, the powerful are not just coveted for their influence, but likewise the challenge that they symbolise. She welcomes conflict, for prey that fights is the height of fun.
Early on such a woman can be quite charming. Once trust is built she changes tack, switching to coercion and calculated aggression. Whilst emotionally violent she will blame the target for her abusive tirades, validating her cruelty on the slightest observation of guilt or reticence. She will continue in this systematic campaign of mental pressure (consisting mainly of push/pull tactics, veiled threats and wild accusations) until the target yields, her goal to emotionally exhaust the target into a pliable state. She does not care if she controls a person through fear or love for both are merely a means to an end. Once a person falls into her web, she becomes very territorial of them. Commands are issued under the threat of gaslighting. Should you defy her, she will escalate her assault to keep you complicit.
3.) Female Psychopathic Interpersonal Methodology:
Firstly, she will try to isolate you from your peers and family. She might do this by accusing you of something extremely unsavoury (e.g.: physical abuse) to win over the sympathies of your natural allies. Once you are estranged from your emotional support, she will target you with more focus, gaslighting you with repetitive cycles of scorn and forgiveness. This will continue until you’re inculcated into believing her untrue portrayal of events.
Psychopaths of higher intelligence incorporate elements of truth into their fabrications in order to make them plausible. Once you feel guilty enough to take responsibility for fictional events, she will leverage the responsibility you feel to reassert control. She will reel you back in, except angry that she had to exercise her grip on your reins, she will punish you for your attempt at escape. Psychopathic women are vulnerable to abandonment because they are extremely egotistical. It offends the sensibilities of the psychopath to communicate you have the power to leave them. Inversely, she may have no qualms with abandoning you, but the exit must be on her terms. If it is not, as a product of ego, she will relentlessly obsess in achieving vengeance.
The type P woman is a creature of schadenfreude, for those who don’t understand the term, it’s a loanword from German that directly translates as “harm-joy.” Put more aptly it means “to derive joy from another’s pain.” Type P woman have a knack for finding that someone or something which symbolises your weakness. When they discover it, they will pervert, corrupt and expose it in an attempt to mount an attack against you.
Quintessentially psychopathic women make for fine tacticians. They understand the importance of monopolising the herd, that one must ostracise, or be ostracised. In line with their sadistic tendencies, they derive great joy from seeing your allies alienate you, be it immediate or gradual. The severity of the ploy used to ensure your ostracisation depends on the context and aim of the woman in question. It can be as mild as diminishing your popularity to reappropriate people’s favour, or something more akin to what was previously described, all out psychological warfare.
If you are weak, a type P woman will expose the full height of her power, downplaying subtlety and indirectness for a more brutish approach. However if you are powerful, she will puppeteer rather than colonise. In dealings with the powerful they tend to opt for charm rather than coercion, recognising a far lower chance of victory in a direct conflict. To become favoured they turn themselves into the target’s source of dopamine, overwhelming them with positive feelings in order to form mental dependence. At a glance this may sound harmless, but the intent is insidious nevertheless. The psychopathic women wishes a powerful target to crave her, for it is via that mechanism she can control them.
4.) Psychopathic Women & Sex:
Regardless of her specific cluster B classification, sex with a dark triad woman is never recommended. Typically when a man and a woman have sex there is a psychological power exchange that leaves the woman feeling exposed, and the man, stronger. This is not the case with a female type P. Such a woman does not feel “used up” for sexing her target, quite the contrary, she feels empowered, for she has acquired leverage. And should you ignore her leverage prompting her to publicly reveal your liaisons, she has the perfect spin prepared. Spin that society is all too willing and eager to eat up “he took advantage of me.” If it’s your word against hers, you will lose.
If she can become a source of sex, you will become increasingly addicted to her. And should you choose to cut her off, she has the ability to threaten your reputation. When things turn ugly the sex becomes a weaponised secret, leverage for blackmail that can be used to threaten your job or your family should you not comply with her wishes. Even before she inevitably escalates she has won, because men are malleable when they are getting “crazy girl sex.” And should this man come to his senses and wish to escape her influence? She wins yet again because she has the leverage to blackmail. Such a man finds himself stuck between a rock and a hard place, for bribery does nought but win a promise of retreat, it does not negate her leverage. Nothing stops her taking a bribe for her silence, only to instigate further blackmail at a later date.
Psychopathic women covet secrets because they understand profoundly that the holder of secrets holds the keys to power. And so should such a woman be unable to uncover any secrets, she will create one to get the leverage she seeks. And what better way to do this than through “forbidden sex,” to fuck her target? The type P woman seeks leverage by any means necessary. Knowing that the powerful will be incredibly resistant to a more direct approach she adopts an insidious albeit innocuous one.
Despite the predatory nature of type P women, the malevolence of their nature is normally rationalised by self-identifying as a victim. The whole filter for their reality is seen through that of an unaccountable victim’s, and it is within this mental construct they self-justify carte blanche ruthlessness. The objective predator uses the psychology of prey to justify its predation, a marvellous feat of self-deception. And so it is thus apparent that the truly best deceivers begin with themselves.
5.) In Closing:
Type P women have no concept of loyalty, their loyalty is only for their self-interest. They are the centre of their world; everyone else is just an observation, a pawn, a by-product, a target, an obstruction and so forth. Due to empathy deficiency and an incapacity to pair-bond, they epitomise the distrust they hold for others. Their power but a combination of their attraction and machiavellian prowess. This is how they attain gratification and stimulation in a world they feel perpetually disconnected from and underwhelmed by.
Perversely, the closest thing to bonding a dark triad woman experiences is when she tortures a target with her more aggressive side. The relationship between abuser and abusee is the closest thing to love a type P woman is capable of; somewhat ironically this is how they “love.” Call it reverse Stockholm syndrome if you will. Like other dark triad women, the type P thrives in chaos. She holds nothing but contempt for peace, for with peace there is no emotional energy to harness and self-stimulate with. Think of dark triad women as human poltergeists, they need conflict in order to feed their compulsion to dominate their surroundings. Where a chaos deprived atmosphere pervades for too long, they will go out of their way to create drama as a way of reasserting themselves.
Psychopathic women are not well-suited to any but the most empathy deficient and thrill-seeking of men. Even her relationship with a dark triad man is nought but a union of two sadistic thrill seekers engaged in a perpetual wrestle for power. If you are not high enough on the psychopathy spectrum to derive enjoyment from the conflict of a psychopathic woman’s unending histrionics, you’d do well to steer clear. Believe me when I say that the mere words here do no justice in expressing the true severity of what they describe. If you meet one of these women and aren’t dark triad yourself, run and don’t turn back.
6.) Relevant Reading:
Wisdom of the Psychopaths is written by Professor Kevin Dutton of Oxford, he talks about the positives of psychopathy and how they are crucial to certain job roles (soldiers, surgeons, finance etc.) When you want to know how psychopathy manifests and effects different industries, this is what you want to read.
Professor Simon Baron-Cohen discusses various kinds of empathy deficiency, including psychopathy, borderline personality and narcissism. He also goes into detail about the neuroanatomy of the brain’s empathy circuit. When you want to understand the complexity of empathy disorders, this is the book you’re looking for.